Wells Family

My Ever So Growing Garden

2011-05-26T16:46:00.000-07:00

First Planted 4/20/11

4/30/11

5/7/11

5/9/11

5/18/11

5/26/11

Adoption and Abortion

2011-05-20T18:03:00.000-07:00

Motherhood: An Eternal Partnership with God

2011-05-20T17:57:00.000-07:00

I Am a Child of God

2011-05-20T17:55:00.000-07:00

Happy 9 Wonderful Years!

2011-05-18T14:02:00.000-07:00

Today nine years ago I married my best friend. It was has been a bumpy ride, but well worth it! We have been so many places and have done so many things. I can't wait to see what the next 90 years will bring.

My Sister Came For A Visit

2011-05-18T13:53:00.000-07:00

So I see that I haven't posted anything in a month. That's due to so many things going on in my life.

First my Sister came for a visit! I was soooo happy that she came and boy did we have fun. She was in transition from her old job (boooo) to her new one (YEA!) and had a week off so we flew her out. I needed some sister time! It had been last October since we last saw each other. It was so much fun to go pick her up at the airport. I had on bunny ears (since it was two weeks before Easter). Sorry no picture. I'll post a picture of Boz wearing them.

First adventure: Lake Havasu City, AZ
We went to go visit our Grandmother. We had such a fun time. We met my Aunt, Grandmother and Cousin for lunch when we got there on Friday. Then that night we went down to the lake and walked over to the London Bridge. Can't ever get use to the sight. Its so pretty in the evening down by the lake and bridge. Then we got up the next morning and went to the Black Bear Diner. Have never been there before. The food was sooo good and the portions were soooo big!

Then we drove home.

Second adventure: Home Depot
So after crashing for an hour after the three hour tour (I mean drive home), Janna was going to help me plant my garden. So off we went to home depot to get my fruits and veggies for planting. We got strawberries, tomatoes, a grape tree, squash, zucchini, green peppers, yellow peppers, red peppers, cucumber, sweet peas, parsley, lavender, basil, mint. I think that's about it.

We grilled out, went to the cemetery so she could see where our Grandpa's cript is. Went shopping for Easter outfits and just hung out. It was really good for the both of us. I LOVE MY SISTER! I just can't believe it went by so quick.

Good luck Janna on your new job! (She is now a Jailer for Frisco, TX PD.)

To Cute Not To Pass Up

2011-04-14T22:49:00.000-07:00

Today I was busy cleaning my house (my sister is visiting for a week) and as I was mopping I turned around this is what I saw:

You see, when Boz goes outside and the grass is wet (he LOVES to sit in the wet grass) I put a towel down in front of the door and he knows that when there is a towel down he sits and waits so that I can dry his paws and tummy. I just couldn't pass up this cute moment.

Baby Madilyn Visits Great-Grandparents

2011-04-14T22:44:00.000-07:00

So last Friday I took my Grandparents to the heart doctor. The same day my cousin needed me to watch her youngest girl. She is soooo cute! She is only seven months old and her name is Madilyn. She is also the easiest baby ever! I had her from 9:30 am till 4pm and she did not cry once. I would like to take credit and say that I did such an amazing job, but I can't. She herself is amazing! And she loved hanging out with Great-Grandma Ann and Great-Grandpa Andy.

My cousin asked me to take pictures and I wanted to share a few. Hope you enjoy!

Finally Finished The Yard!

2011-03-31T20:13:00.000-07:00

We finally got the front and bacyard done! The house is almost complete. Here are some pics of the yard.

Backyard Before:

Backyard After:

Front Yard Before:

Front Yard After:

Pictures of the House

2011-03-31T19:56:00.001-07:00

2 Years Ago This Month

2011-03-07T21:41:00.000-08:00

Two years ago his month we adopted a special little someone. Can you guess who? No, its not what you think. His name is Boz and he is a Shepherd/Chow mix four legged with a tail special little someone. I can't believe its been that long. Friday I took him in for his shots and we weighs 66 lbs. I know he is on the little heavy side (my sister calls him a little burrito) but we are exercising him more. Just got to stop feeding him from the table. Here is a look back at a few (actually love all the pics that I take of him) pics. He was only three months old when we got him.

Hope you enjoy!

Scardy Cat (actually Dog)

2011-03-07T20:53:00.000-08:00

So Saturday I went to IKEA and got me a pot rack to hang my pots and pans from in my kitchen. Saturday night Chad was wonderful! After working so hard in the yard and on the sprinkler system he hung it up for me and wouldn't you know, Boz is scared of it. After we hung it up we went looking for him and this is where we found him:

He was hiding in the curtains by the back door. It was soooo funny! Now he won't even go into the kitchen without someone being in there. Or he will sit in the hallway by the garage door until you call his name. Don't know why he is scared. Guess he will just have to get use to it.

Big Weekend!

2011-03-07T20:36:00.000-08:00

We finally have a living room! We got a new couch a week ago and just this past weekend finally got curtains for the living room.

I know its stupid to get excited, but our house is really coming along. Can't wait to finish the sprinkler system and get some grass growing in the yard so I have something to mow. Plus Boz can stop tracking mud into the kitchen! So many things still left to make our house into a home. But it sure has been fun.

The weekend before we finally got me a car. Ever since I learned about the Ford Fiesta I have wanted one! I got the sedan instead of the hatchback, and I am LOVING it.

I love the SYNC technology and feel very sporty in it. Even Boz loves it. He wanted to go with me to work today (or maybe just a ride)!

But he knows he is not suppose to be in my car. He has the Jeep to get all hairy. Now I feel socially mobile again. Now what do I do with my freedom? Movies? Lunch? Library? Temple?

1 Year Ago Tomorrow

2011-03-07T19:48:00.000-08:00

I can't believe one year ago tomorrow I started an awesome job! I work for Ford Motor Company. It has been such a blessing to have gotten this job (even though its only part time!). I still can't believe how fast the year has gone. I work with so many wonderful people and I just love it! Hopefully this next year will be even better! Can't complain that I work all day on Monday and then three half days and get Fridays off. I love my me time!

Update

2011-02-04T14:20:00.000-08:00

So my friend Natalie told me last week that I hadn't updated my blog in a while. Its been a little busy around here. Well here's an update:

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving at my Aunt Cathy's house with two of my cousins and their families.

Survived Christmas! It was fun seeing all my cousins in the Thornock clan. It had been a while since I had seen Jeff & Sandy and their kids and Brian & Sonya and their kids, Rob & Emily & their new baby Bobby and Rick & Barb & their kids. Spent Christmas Eve and night playing tons of games and laughing.

New Years Eve was fun. When over to my cousin's house (The Monroe's) and played more games and watched the ball drop. Left about 3:30am. We are such party people!

We went to dinner and a movie (The Green Hornet) with some friends. Dinner was great! We went to the Old Spaghetti Factory at the Chandler Fashion Mall. It was great food. Can't wait to go again.

We finally got into our back yard last weekend (since the weather was sooo nice) and really cleaned up the yard. I mowed and weed eated a few days eairlier so that Chad would till the dirt. Boy did it need it. We spent about 6 hours working to get it ready to plant grass in the Spring. It really does look better than it did before.

(Before I mowed)

(After)

(After we tilled the dirt and moved the rocks from around the tree)

After spending 6 hours doing yard work, we went to Chad's work and put his office back together. A few weeks prior they had a flood and Chad's office, the conference room and the two bathrooms were flooded. A drain in the warehouse had clogged. So Chad had to move his stuff and setup shop in the IT room. I'm telling you it seemed like it was an 8X10 room (the size of a jail cell) and he actually liked working in that tight space. So they ripped out the bottom half of the wall and carpet and put in new wall and carpet. Now that that was finished, he needed to move back in. So I told him I would help. But after lugging rocks and heavy bags all morning, i wasn't ready for a metal desk. So he got us the forklift and and were able to get most of his furniture back in. Boz thought is was all borning and just wanted to play. But he is all moved in.

(Boz's idea of helping)

(Doesn't he look good as a guard dog?)

(Or maybe a good worker?)

(Unless he is napping?)

(Either way, how do you get any work done when you have an animal taking up space on your desk?)

I have been scrapbooking more than usual. I have started a book for Boz. Its turned out really cute, that my sister wants one. She told me not to hurry on it, but lately thats all I have been working on. It helps me clear my head. She doesn't know that I have almosted finished it and it only took me a week and a half to put together. I hope to suprise her and mail it to her next week!

We also were able to go to the Barrett Jackett Auction (courtesy of Ford) a few Saturdays ago. It was sooo much fun. We went with Mike and Diana (Chad works with Mike and Diana is his wife). We go to the races with them. It was fun to see all the old cars and suped up cars and couldn't believe how much someone was willing to pay for it. The top selling car the whole week was a one-of-a-kind Boss 302 2012 Laguna Blue Ford Mustang! It was sweet. It racked in $450,000. The car was built and auctioned of for the JDRF (Juvinile Diabetes Foundation). Ford is a big support of JDRF. We were lucky to have been there when it was auctioned off. Not even the Chevy Camero (that was being auctioned off for Chevy's Charity) could top that. It only brought in $220,000. I feel very blessed to be working with a company that feels so passionate about a cause. (Didn't help that Bret Micheals from Poison was also pushing it!). But over all it was sooo much fun. Took lots of pics and had some really good food. Can't wait till next year. My goal is to make it into the Ford Sky Box.

We are starting the process of renewing our certification with LDS Family Services for adopting. Its been a little discouraging since we have not had any calls or emails the past year. I just pray that someone knows someone who needs a wonderful loving home for their little one. If any out there does know someone, please keep us in mind. We would sure appreciate it. Please tell your friend, family and Bishops. You never know how you can change someones life just by telling someone.

So far 2011 has been busy for us. I will try and update more often than I have been. Hopefully we will be doing some fun things in the weeks to come!

Update

2010-11-15T19:59:00.000-08:00

So a friend pointed out that I haven't updated our blog since May and a lot has happened. I guess the easiest thing is to just list what we have been up too.

1. Mar - Jlynn started working part time for Ford Motor Company.
2. Mar - Jlynn watched two of her cousin Susie's kids so they could take the oldest one to New York. We both had a blast taking them to Amazing Jake's (an in-door theme park.) Don't know who had more fun, Chad or the girls. Can't wait to do it again!
3. Mar - Work trip to Detroit for training.
4. Mar - Week long trip around North Arizona and stayed at cabins along the way.
5. Apr. - First Nascar Race with friends - Subway 600
6. May - Celebrated our 8 year wedding anniversary
7. June - Bought a house
8. July - Last Trip for Jlynn to Girl's Camp. It was bitter sweet. I was able to go on the campout with the 4th years as my last hurrah! It was great! I will truly miss going with the Young Women. We had the best girls in our stake. Sad that we had to move out of the Stake, but it was the right decision. Maybe I can as a cook next year with the new Stake. I wonder who I have to talk to (BRIBE) to go?
9. July - Moved & renovated house
10. Aug. - My Grandpa (Dad's side) passed away. Went with my parents to the funeral.
11. Sept. - Celebrated Chad's 40th birthday
12. Sept. - Week long trip to Texas to visit family
13. Sept. - Brad Paisley's H2O concert
14. Sept. - Jlynn's Dad was in town for work and played taxi driver. Also went to Lake Havasu with Dad to visit Grandma.
15. Oct. - Hail Storm in Arizona. I know its hard to believe. I have pics to prove!
16. Oct - Time Out For Women Conference with my Sister and Mom in Plano. Had a blast as always. Sad that this might be the last girl trip for a while.
17. Finally made it to the Arizona State Fair to see Bret Michaels perform. Road the Tilt-A-Whirl and ate some food and played some games.
18. Oct/Nov - Lots of painting and finishing projects around the house. (Finally painted the master bath!) One bathroom left to paint.
19. Nov. - Kobalt 500 Nascar Race with friends again.
20. Nov. - Soon to celebrate Jlynn's 28th birthday.

Pictures are coming and hopefully it won't take me months to post some. I am sure that I missed something and may update this if I find that I missed something.

Hope all friends and family are going great! We are going to be home for the holiday's this year so I will make sure that I post updates and pics about the fun we are having.

I Will Stand as a Witness of Christ

2010-07-11T15:13:00.000-07:00

8 Wonderful Years

2010-05-18T08:34:00.001-07:00

I know I haven't blogged in a while and I have been meaning to post pics and updates, since we did take a trip back in March and I went to Detroit. I will blog and post another time about those.

Today is our 8 year wedding anniversary. We haven't killed each other yet and are still happily in love. Like most marriages there are ups and downs and this past year has been full of those. I must say that I am lucky to have married my best friend. Someone I can lean on when times get tough and someone to snuggle with while watching a movie. :) Thank you Chad for sticking with me and putting up with my mood swings. Its not easy being married to me and I know that. I am working daily on learning patience and understanding. I know that we have come a long way and still have a ways to go. Heck you are stuck with me for eternity! But I am blessed to have a wonderful priesthood holder in my home and I look forward to raising our children together. You are truly a blessing in my life. Lets make the next eight even better!

A Taste of Motherhood

2010-03-18T20:44:00.000-07:00

So this past Thursday through Saturday I had two of my cousin Susie's kids (Laurynn and Katelynn). Susie and her Husband MJ took their eldest daughter Ashlynn to New York and asked me if I could stay at their house and watch daughters 2 and three. Their youngest daughter Brynlynn stayed at her Aunt's house (Susie's Sister). So Wednesday night I spent the night at their house since they needed to leave by 5am for the airport. So I got up got myself ready and then the girls got up and we got ready for school. I took them to a friends house and dropped them off and then made a mad dash to work. Didn't want to be late on my fourth day. When noon came I left made another mad dash home to take Boz out and then take care of a few things for our Relief Society dinner and service project at the church building. Then dropped Boz off at home to make a mad dash to get the girls from school. Once the girls got home we made a dash back to the church bldg. It was a long day! By the time we got back to their house it was 10pm. Got them in bed and then crawled into bed (thanks Susie for letting me use your bed! I want your bed!).

Next morning my alarm goes off at 7 (thank goodness for having Fridays off). This morning the girls asked "Jlynn can you not drop us off and then take off? Yesterday when you dropped us off and left we were afraid when we got up to the door that no one was home. Good that they were." I had no idea that they felt this way! I was soooo sorry and felt really bad! I told them that this time I don't have to go to work and that I would stay till I knew someone was there. Luckily there was and even though we were running late, they got off to school. Then I got myself ready and headed to my house to clean. Spent some quality time with Boz and then headed off back to the house to get the girls. This night (Friday) they spent the night out our place. We took them to McDonald's for dinner and some much needed play time. After that they came with us to Dog training class and they had sooo much fun. This time there was only one other dog, so that made it much easier. Then came back home, got ready for bed and then lights out.

Saturday morning the girls woke me up at 7:30am. WHO ON EARTH GETS UP THAT EARLY!!!! Not me that's for sure! So I got up and we made waffles and scrambled eggs. Then we took Boz to the dog park and the girls loved it! They played with a lot of the dogs and they weren't scared. After the park Chad and I decided to take them somewhere fun. So Amazing Jake's was the place to go. We had so much fun riding all the rides and playing the games and the food was AMAZING! For the price that we paid, the food had better be good. There was not only a pizza bar (and it wasn't greasy), there was a salad bar and pasta bar and dessert bar. VERY YUMMY! I would go just for the food. Chad took all the pics (finally I can prove that I was in on the fun). I rode the rides with the girls (came home bruised and very tired!). After being there for what seamed like eternity, I took them over to their Grandparents house where I was sad to be passing them on. Lets just say that the apartment was once again quiet.

Thanks girls for hanging out with me and for putting up with me. I hope that I have kids that are just like you two. You both are soooo amazing! Even though you tired me out I was sad that it came to an end. Hopefully we can hang out again! I know Boz would love to see you again!

Update

2010-03-01T13:08:00.000-08:00

So its been a while since I last posted. Life has been busy. We found a house and have been waiting to hear back that we got it. Its 3 bedroom, 2 bath. It has a swimming pool and a huge backyard for Boz. Needs a little work, but definitely worth it. We hope to hear soon that we got. Its a short sale, so who knows when.

February we celebrated Valentine's day by putting together our Families Supporting Adoption Group Dinner. A lot of work for me, but worth it. Even thought we didn't have that many show up. We did dinner and a movie. Princess Brides is such a classic. Then on Saturday we went and saw Percy Jackson, The Olympian and went to dinner. It was so much fun and the movie was great!

Then my pages for my page swap group where due. This time I did a Happy Easter kit. It turned out really cute.

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Then we made Boz his own bed for the back of the jeep and he is LOVING it.

Now my sister wants me to make her one for her two dogs. I think it turned out really cute!

Did I mention that I got a part time job? I start March 8th and then fly to Michigan for 2 days of training. I am really excited to be working and as a regional analyst/coordinator. Plus I will be working in the same office as a friend. CAN'T WAIT! I work full day on Mondays and then three half days and get Friday's off. Did I mention that I am looking forward to it?

Well that seems to be all going on in our life right now. Will post more when it happens.

Christmas In GA

2009-12-28T12:34:00.000-08:00

We had the opportunity to be in GA this year for Christmas. My Brother Justin and his Wife Liz were going through the Temple for the first time and were being sealed to each other and to their Son Aidan. We couldn't pass up this opportunity.

So we flew into Columbia SC, (with a connecting flight in Charlotte NC) and they picked us up at the airport on Tuesday, 12/22.

That night was the endowment session and then we stayed the night at the Marriott Town and Suites like 5 minutes from the Temple. Then on Wednesday at 12pm was the Sealing. It was great to see how many people from their ward came to support them. Even Liz's Dad was there (he is not a member).

After the sealing we all went to lunch at Chili's and then headed back to their house for Christmas. It was so much fun being there and hanging out. Not really having any plans to do anything but visit. Christmas Eve we opened 1 gift and wouldn't you know it was PJ's. I needed new ones.

Christmas day Aidan came in a woke everyone up! Good thing it wasn't too early. So we all got up and opened presents and had a great day just relaxing and playing with all the toys he got. Thanks to everyone that got us stuff. We really appreciate it.

The day after Christmas we went to the movies and saw Alvin and the Chipmuncks the Squeakwal and it was really cute. We got to the theater an hour early so we sat and entertained ourselves.

On Sunday we went to Church on Sunday for Sacrament Meeting and then headed out to the airport. My parents drove us back to Columbia to catch our flight. There was no one at the airport. It was like a a ghost town. We caught our flight to Charlotte where we had a three hour layover. Once we left at 8:30pm we were in the air headed home. We had to make an emergency medical landing in NM. Needless to say we got home an hour late. We finally arrived at 12:30am and got home at 1am and went to bed by 1:30am. Next time we will try not to get home so late. But we were glad that we went.

It was a nice break to get away and not worry about anything. And we knew that Boz was being taken care of by great friends and he was. He was so excited to see me when I went to pick him up. I am just glad he remembered me. Now that he had a bath, he is napping on the couch. Now its back to the swing of life. We hope all had a great Christmas and we wish all a Happy New Year!

Misc. Pics:

Wells Family Newsletter 2009

2009-12-28T12:30:00.000-08:00

Dear Family & Friends,

It’s time once again for winter wonderlands, crackling fires, gingerbread men, hot chocolate with marshmallows in a Santa mug, and holiday treats with Rachael Ray and Paula Dean (Yaw). It’s time for snowballs, snowflakes, and snowmen, sleigh bells ringing and choirs a-singing, wreaths, reindeer, and presents, colorful blinking lights and cinnamon candle scents, Nativity Scenes and Nutcracker armies, candy canes and the annual tree ornament. It’s time for the pre-planned trips to Wal-Mart, for George Bailey and Bedford Falls, and We’ll Follow The Old Man Wherever He Wants to Go in White Christmas, for Christmas CDs, lots of cards hanging on the front door, and the 12 days of Christmas. Then there’s Ole Saint Nick whom we don’t give enough credit. It’s time to put up the tree!!! It’s time for watching all the parades on all the original networks, kicking back to football and a bowl of chili (with cheese), and all the classic Christmas claymation movies you can watch. Hi Yukon!!!! These are just a few of our favorite holiday things.

Usually you can find us traveling about doing much good around the world. Visiting family and friends, dropping by here and there reminiscing about the old and the new, talking much of plans and accomplishments, neat things and big dreams. But not to worry, we’ll be back around soon when you least expect it to enjoy our time once again with good ole you whom we dearly and truly admire. But come see us too. This past year you probably spotted us on top of South Mountain in Phoenix hiking at 5:00 am every Saturday morning, or you probably spotted us at a Styx /REO Speedwagon /38 Special concert back in May, or you even probably found us at the dog park every Sunday night letting our new little furry family member, BOZ, run around with the other K9s. We adopted BOZ from a rescue shelter and he’s quite an interesting intelligence with fur that eats whatever’s not glued down. It has been so wonderful having BOZ in our life. He has brought much joy and love into our home. He loves to play keep-away, sleep all sprawled out, and pick up his food bowl while the food is still in it to re-position it from the kitchen to the living room before he digs in. He was only 3 months old at the time we adopted him (we just celebrated his 1st b-day two weeks ago). It took a lot of patience and lots of lost sleep in house training him, but we did it. He has been through eight weeks of puppy training, graduated with a diploma from PetSmart and got puppy ice cream for a graduation gift. Now we can sleep through the night……….until he has to go out. …uuuggghhh!!!! “Hey you trained me to do that.” Says BOZ.

Speaking of little family members, we are now certified as adoptive parents and are looking forward to adding some little Wells’ to our home. It has been quite the process, but we finally made it. You can view our profile at www.itsaboutlove.org. Then click on view adopting family profiles on the left hand side and go in as our guest. Our Profile ID is 21601909. Please keep us in your prayers, that when the time is right we will welcome in our home some little bundles of joy, one way or the other. We have included cards that you may pass on to those you know, or
someone who knows someone, when the need arises.

To close this all up, we want to take a quick line to say thanks and show our appreciation to all of you, both fathers and brothers, who have served in the military in our combined families. Thank you for fighting for and guarding the freedoms we have in both past and present. This year we say Welcome Home (again) to “G” and Justin from the Middle East, or wherever it was you had been covertly deployed.

We feel blessed for all that we have and all that we are. May God bless you too this Holiday Season and in the New Year to come with peace, love, and joy.

Love you all, Chad, jlynn & Boz (Bozzymoto)

Temple Lights

2009-12-01T11:46:00.000-08:00

So last Saturday the Missionaries asked us to go with them to the Temple Lights cause they were going to be there with a couple that they care teaching. So of course we went. We go every year. It is such an amazing sight and so humbling. And of course I took pictures. I was running around light a tourist taking as many pictures as I could. Here are a few.

jlynn turned 27!

2009-11-27T22:25:00.000-08:00

So last Saturday was jlynn's 27th birthday! It started at 5:30 am with singing and presents. Chad totally surprised me and had presents, cake and flowers waiting for me in the living room.

Boz didn't know what was going on!

So I opened presents and blew out the candle on the cake.

Chad had written a code on the inside of my card and I had to decipher it. Three red roses, 2 new shirts and movie tickets for New Moon at 11:35am. So we hurried and did our hike and then came home and made it to the movies. Afterwards we went to Red Robin for lunch. YUM, YUM!!! I love Red Robin. Then we came home took naps and then I went to the church building to watch the Roadshows that our Stake did. It was such a fun birthday. I am so lucky to have such an amazing husband who would show so much love to sit through another Twilight movie. Thank you honey! I can't wait to plan something for your 40th birthday next year!

I just want to end by saying how lucky I am also to be able to share a birthday with such an amazing sister! Janna I love you and am so glad that we came to earth together. I don't know what my life would have been had you not been in it. You are my best friend and confidant. Again I love you.

Adoption Update

2009-11-27T21:53:00.000-08:00

Well, we are happy to report that we are now certified to adopt and our profile is now on Its About Love website. The website is www.itsaboutlove.com. Then on the right hand side you can click on View Adopting Family Profiles and then search by location AZ. Or you can copy and paste this link www.itsaboutlove.org/ial/profiles/21601909/ourMessage.jsf. We are so excited and know that this is our time to expand our family. We hope that you keep us in your thoughts and prayers and please let us know if you know anyone.

Adoption Profile Finished

2009-11-09T23:05:00.000-08:00

So we finally finished our profile for our adoption. It was tough writing the Birth Parent Letter. Plus we had to choose 24 pictures. Wow, I can't believe how much we have changed over the last 7 years.

But at last we can say that now all we are waiting for is a call from our caseworker that we are certified and then our profile (after he reviews it) can be posted and then its a waiting game to see if we are chosen. Once our profile goes up I will be posting it on our blog for all family and friends to view. So please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. And if you know anyone who knows anyone please let us know. :)

Good Night and hope all are doing great!

Happy Halloween

2009-11-01T21:08:00.000-08:00

So I hope all had a great Halloween. I know we did. Our ward had their annual Halloween Carnival that we have with the other two wards that meet in our building. So of course I dressed Boz up for it. (And yes I made his costume.)

When I put the cuffs of him he just sat and wined. But he was a good sport for pictures. Once we left home Boz was able to get the front ones off so I took them off but left the collar. He was a BIG hit at the carnival. Plus there were other dogs there to.

Afterwards we went over to a friends house (Steve and Natalie Alger) and carved pumpkins. Natalie and I went on Friday with her son Eli and went to the pumpkin patch to get our pumpkins. We had so much fun.

Can't wait to get the pics that Natalie took. They were cute.

Here are some pics of the pumpkin that we carved. Chad drew the face, I carved and cleaned out and then he painted. It was fun.

Then went home and I did laundry. Now that was SCARY!

But all in all we had a great Halloween. Now I can't wait for my Birthday and Thanksgiving!

Christmas Came Early

2009-10-12T15:51:00.000-07:00

So over this past weekend we joined the flat screen tv group. Its only taken us years to decide if we wanted one or not and could not pass up the great deal. So we figured it would be our Christmas present to us. We also thought we would wait till we were in a house to get one. This way we wouldn't be moving around and a chance that it would break. But when we saw the deals we couldn't pass it up. I can't believe how cheap they are getting now.

We were not hogs and buy the biggest one. We got a modest one that is perfect for our apartment. We got a 37" RCA. Now all we need are the HD channels. That will have to wait. But I do have to share one funny tid bit though. When we got home you would think that me, as the wife, would be in the kitchen making dinner and Chad would be in the living room hanging it. NOPE!! I was in the living room drilling holes and putting up the wall hanger and Chad was in the kitchen making lasagna. Total gender switch. But you know what it just goes to show you that anyone can do anything they want regardless of their gender.

And because I am such a scrapbooker I told Chad to grab the camera and take pics. Proof I guess that I actually did it. What a pain in the butt and I can't wait to do that again in a house. At least it will be there permanently!

Well that's all for now!

Cheese Grater Won!

2009-09-26T15:15:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I got the idea to make meatloaf since in the last 7 years I have not made it. So I went to the store and got everything I needed. Came home, took a nap and then got up to make it. As I was gratering the carrots I accidentally grated my ring finger on my right hand. OUCH! I just have to say that this has now made my top 10 list of things not to get hurt by. Its about 1 1/2 inches long and is a pretty deep cut. I could get the bleeding to stop and thought I might have to rush over to the ER. But I cleaned it really good (again OUCH!!!) wrapped it in gauze and taped it pretty tight. My finger was throbbing my the time I was finished making dinner. After that I got out my salad master cuter thingy and finished shredding the carrots. Why didn't I just use that to start with? I have not idea!!! But I will now be using that for every shredding, dicing, and anything else I can think of. Dinner turned out good and I can't wait to make meatloaf again next month!!! (Without shredding my finger again!). And of course I couldn't help but take a pic of it this morning. Its kinda gross, but as long as I don't apply pressure, its doesn't hurt. Now I am off to the Relief Society dinner and Broadcast!

Update

2009-09-17T16:22:00.000-07:00

So a lot has happend since Girls Camp I hardly know where to begin. So sorry if this is a little long. Will try and keep it simple.

After Girls camp I got sick, well not so much sick as being subject to a week long of the hives. And trust me it was not pretty! I bought some new sheets for Chad's airmatress in his "man" room (second bedroom that he uses for his Sundat naps) and didn't wash them. I ended up taking a nap on the bed and woke up itching. By 3 am I was head to toe spotted and itching. So I went to the doctors and she gave me a cortizone shot and put me on a weeks worth of steroids. By the end of the week it cleared up. There were a couple of days that I thought it went away only to have its flare up. Even my loving husband went at 4:30 am to get me cortizone cream before he left on his Saturday morning hike. He always takes care of me when I am sick. Here are a couple of pics.

Once the hives cleared up I went boating with a friend and her brothers and their wifes and had a blast. I have never wakeboarded before and just went to ride on the boat. It was so much fun to get out after not being able to go anywhere for a week. So we got out to the lake and headed to their favorite spot I guess. The weather was perfect and the water was awesome! Everyone had their turn on the board and was about to hook up the tube when they turned to me and asked if I wanted to try. Well I couldn't say no with so many eyes on me so of course I said sure I'll try it. Well I did pretty good. I was able to get up on my second try and then face planted. Well after doing that a couple of times I was ready to give up. So on my last try I landed on the right side of my head. Well I thought I only got water in me ears and couldn't hear out of my right ear. So I thought what the heck I already hurt my ear might as well have one last shot of fun. So once they tight up the raft Natalie (my friend) and I jumped on and had so much fun being flung around and hitting the waves and of course we lost our grip a couple of times. And on the last time we (or maybe it was just me) hit the water really hard. I think if Natalie hadn't started laughing I would have cried instead. And of course I hurt my ear even more. So that night I got some ear drops to see if that would clear my ear up and nothing was working. It sounded like I was listening in a tunnel. So a week later (I know my mom already yelled at me!) I finally went in to see my doctor. And wouldn't you know I had punctured a hole in my eardrum! So she sent me to see an ENT specialist. Luckily I was able to get in to see one the next day. She looked in my ears (scarred from all the earinfections and tubes I had as a kid) and she confirmed that I had a hole in my ear drum. She said she wanted to see if it would heal on its own and to come back in 5 weeks. If it doesn't heal then she would have to do a paper patch. And it would then heal a few weeks later. So now its a waiting game. I couldn't believe that I had done such a reckless thing. But it sure was fun! The Dr. then looked in my left ear and noticed that the skin that is suppose to vibrate in the eardrum is stuck to the bone (not sure what it is called) and that in 5-10 years if I don't get it fixed I could lose my hearing perminently. I thought great! But the good news is that it can be fixed with a simple proccedure that she can do in her office. Thank goodness. But I may have to wait on that for a little bit. I just want my right ear to heal and to have my hearing tested. (Maybe that's why I talk so loud!)

Here are a few pics of me on the board.

After the fun of putting a hole in my eardrum I went on a scrapbooking retreat in CA with my cousin. It was so awesome! We left Friday and came back the following Tuesday. 3 1/2 days of nothing but staying up late watching movies and scrapbooking. It was soooo much fun. There was 14 of us and we rented a 5 bedroom/5bathroom house in Palm Desert. The house was perfect. Nice open living room that we could set up tables and all be in the same room. Plus we had to of had at least$1,000 worth of Cricut cartridges that we could all use. It was great! Puts my two to shame. I was able to finally scrapebook our wedding. Thanks to Costco ($12.00 for 86 pics) and Joann's (after spending almotst 6 hours Sat running from store to store trying to find just the right paper) and the scrapbook that Chad gave me on our 1 year anniversary (we have now been married 7 years) I was able to do it. Now I just need to do our honeymoon. But I think we still have film that needs to be developed (neither one of us had a ditigal camera then). Now I am on the hunt for a really cute tropical (since our honeymoon was a cruise) book and paper. I hope I can find something in the scrapbook convention that is coming up the first weekend in Oct. I made so many new friends and learned so many new tricks. I also have a whole new wish list of things for Christmas! There was a group shot taken of all of us and I hope that it will get e-mailed to us. For now all I have is pics of the house. Here are the ones that I took of our wedding album.

Pics of the house:

The house from the backyard:

The room that Connie (my cousin), her friend Heather, Myself (during the day I slept on the couch in the living room)and Vicky (Connie's other friend from CA) stayed in:

The living room that we were all in:

I think that is pretty much it except for our Stake re-doing ward boundaries and now I am not in the same ward with my YW. I am sooo sad, but we are going to the same building so I will get to see them every Sunday. I wonder what my calling will be???

That's all for now. I promise not to wait so long to write. Hopefully the next time I do I can announce that we are certified to adopt. So if you have any friends or family, or friends of family, please let them know that we are looking to adopt an infant. Till next time, God Bless.

Girls Camp 2009 - Camp Lo Mia

2009-08-11T23:09:00.001-07:00

We went to girls camp at Camp Lo Mia and we were the last stake to go up. With that we were able to shower everyday with the condition that we had to clean very good.

This year the theme was Sweet Dreams. Motivating the girls to making goals and accomplishing them. One focusing on the Temple. It was amazing and we all had fun and definitely felt the spirit. I was so glad that I was able to go and hang out with THE most amazing YW. Next year (unless we get some YW moving into our ward) we will only have 4 girls in the addie therefore not as many leaders is needed.

Thank you girls for such an awesome time. We didn't have to worry about anyone and again you were amazing. I am glad that I get the opportunity to hang out with you on Wednesday nights and I am very honored to teach you on Sunday.

Girls Camp Here We Come!!!!

2009-07-31T23:08:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to write a quick note about girls camp. This year the theme is Sweet Dreams. Its going to be awesome! We leave tomorrow (Aug 1) and come back on Wednesday (Aug 5). Fresh air, green trees, solitude from the world! What better place to be in tuned with the spirit! I will be taking lots of pics as usual and can't wait to cut loose and have fun with the girls in our ward. We have THE BEST group of girls!

Also to put a plug in on our adoption. We had the home study done and our caseworker is sending in the papers to the courts to be certified. So it should be soon that we can tell all if they know someone who might know someone who is looking for a couple to adopt. We are excited!

More news and updates to come!

Longest Hike Ever!

2009-07-11T22:13:00.000-07:00

So today we went on hike number 7. I didn't post pics from hike 6. We got started at 6am this time and we finished at 9:30. I wanted to make it to "the tunnel" this trip and wasn't sure how long it would take us. So we started out on Beverly Canyon and then followed the National Trail till we hit the turnoff for Hidden Vally. Once there we caught Mormon Loop to come back to the car. Boz was ready to go once we reached Hidden Valley, but there was no way I was able to carry him out. I would die of heat exhaustion! But he was a trooper. Even Chad. I made sure I packed extra water for both. I told Chad no more long hikes like this till the weather cools off. Maybe December! But I am always in awe of the view from the top. This time I was so high that I almost had a 360 degree panoramic view from Phx to Ahwatukee Foothils. Don't know what we will do next week. Maybe an easy one.

Awesome Friends

2009-06-30T12:02:00.001-07:00

Thanks to Steve and Natalie we where able to get some rest last night. You see our air conditioner went out last night. I couldn't figure out why my air was running for 3 hours straight and the apartment wasn't cooling off. So I turned off the air and we went to the gym. Chad called the emergency number and was told that the soonest they could come was first thing in the morning. They offered us a key to another apartment that we could stay in for the night. But I called our good friends Steve and Natalie to borrow a fan. They provided something better! An air conditioner that you plug in. Its a unit that Natalie would use in her classroom at home during the summer. So I lugged it (and yes its very heavy!) home with another regular fan. Chad didn't think we needed the unit so he turned on the fan, made himself a pallet on the floor in the living room and slept. Me on the other had, it was so warm that I couldn't sleep so I stayed up and got caught up on The Closer. After that I crawled into bed. Then about midnight I got to hot and went and laid in the living room in front of the fan. Boz curled up next to me and we finally fell asleep.

This morning it got to hot so I finally turned in the air unit and said to myself, we should have turned this on last night. I could definitely feel a difference. It cooled off to about 76 degrees. Now the maintenance guys are here and they are fixing the air conditioner. I am so glad that I pay rent and that they can fix it and it won't cost me anything! But a bug thanks to our friends and how awesome they are!

How hot it got in our second bedroom/office.

The lovely air conditioner unit. I got to get me one of these!

Temperature after the air conditioner was turned on.

Sunday Naps

2009-06-30T11:54:00.000-07:00

So on Sunday I was on my computer watching a movie and the apartment was really quiet. I went into the living room to see what was up. Chad had been asleep in the recliner and the last I saw of our dog he was asleep on the floor in front of Chad. But then I couldn't hear Chad snoring so I went to investigate. And wouldn't you know that they were both gone. So I went into the bedroom to find Chad had climbed back into bed and Boz was no where to be found. So I went back into the living room and check his house. And this is what I found:

I couldn't resist taking a picture. It was sooo cute! You would think that he had a very busy day? I did however take him to the dog park later that evening while Chad attended the priesthood meeting at the Stake Center. Even at 7 pm it was still HOT! But we did have a fun time.

Papago Park

2009-06-21T16:22:00.000-07:00

This time on Saturday when we hiked Jeremy (friend of ours) took us to Papago Park to hike. This time his lovely wife Mindy was able to come. We got there at 6 am and finished about 8:35am. We started out at the Papago Park trails and went up to this pyramid where the first governor of AZ is buried. It is weird that he is intomed in a pyramid over looking the Phoenix Zoo. From there were crossed over a very busy main road and was headed over to the outdoor amphitheater. We didn't make it to the amphitheater. I think if we headed the other way around the Butte we would have made it. Oh well. Boz was really tired and so were we. When we got back I had to take a quick shower and then leave to go have lunch with my Grandmother and run a few errands with her. When I finally got home it was 4pm. (Remember I had been up since 5am). Boy was I in the mood of a nap. So I took one. And it was much needed! Can't wait till next Saturday's hike!

D-Backs vs Houston Astros 6/13/09

2009-06-15T18:27:00.001-07:00

Thanks to Chad's work we were able to get tickets for the baseball game Saturday night. The AZ Diamondbacks played against the Houston Astros. I guess they played them on friday and won. But were not lucky on saturday. They lost. It was a very slow start until finally a home run was hit by Upton on the D-Backs team. Then the Astros scored several more runs and won. All in all it was a good game. Here are some pics. Did I mention that we had great seats thanks to Chad's work?

Hiking Beverly Canyon/Mormon Loop

2009-06-13T12:59:00.000-07:00

This morning we got up at 5:30 am and hiked once again at Point South Mountain. This time we did the Beverly Canyon/Mormom Loop. Round trip it took 2 1/2 hours. We did take Boz with us and he actually did really well. Didn't quit on us. Once we got to the top the view was amazing (as it always is). And got some really good pictures. We also had a friend, Jeremy with us. It was fun having him and he is welcomed anytime. Here are some pics. Enjoy!

Tackel

2009-06-10T08:51:00.000-07:00

So last night after we got home from the gym (only being gone 30 minutes), Boz was sooo lonely that he tackled me to get lots of love. Sometimes we can never make it past the door without him wanting attention as soon as we come home from being gone. I could not share these pics cause they are so dang cute. Very rarely do I get my picture with Boz cause I am usually the one taking the pictures.

Enjoy!

2nd Hike at Point South Mountain

2009-06-07T21:49:00.000-07:00

So we did another hike yesterday (Saturday). We went on a differennt trail at Point South Mountain (Javalina Trail to be exact). This time we went at 6am verses 9am and the temp was much better. This time we didn't brig Boz and we wish that we had. Maybe this Saturday. Who knows? We are hiking to get ready for the hike at girls camp.

Plus I got some really good pictures of the downtown PHX skyline.

Hiking Point South Mountain

2009-06-02T11:58:00.000-07:00

Saturday we went on our first hike and took Boz with us. We made the mistake of going at 9am instead of 5am (jlynn was too lazy to get out of bed). It was already hot! But since we drove the long way to go we decided to go any way. I think this Saturday we will be going at 5am (even if I have to drag jlynn out of bed!). This way we can get back before the heat hits. But here are a few pics of our first family hike.

Celebrating 7 Years Together

2009-05-18T17:23:00.000-07:00

Today Chad and I celebrate our 7 year Wedding anniversary. I am the luckiest woman in the world. Not only did I marry my husband, I married and am sealed for all time and eternity to my best friend. No matter what we have come through and no matter what life has brought us, we have been able to keep our love and friendship so tightly knit together that I think we are the luckiest couple.

To my husband I just want to say thank you. Thank you for marrying me and making me the luckiest woman in the whole world! I am honored to be your wife. No matter what the future hold for us, I will be by our side no matter what. We are able to conquer anything because of you. I am grateful for you spirit, for your testimony, for your patience, for your kindness, gentleness, meekness and comfort that you bring into our home. Thank you for always being there for me. Taking care of me always and showering me with your love always. God has truly blessed me. He gave me you.

I love you now and forever. That will never change. My love will only grow more and deeper with each year that we spend together. May we have a long and happy life together. I hope to one day celebrate our 70th wedding anniversary together.

You are my life and my love always!

2009 "Can't Stop Rockin" Concert

2009-05-17T18:13:00.000-07:00

Since its our Anniversary Weekend (7 years of marriage), Chad thought it would be fun to go to a concert verses going out of town. I had no problems with that since I had just gotten back into town from TX the previous weekend. So we found that 38 Special, REO Speedwagon and Styx were in concert Friday night at the Dodge Theater. So we got tickets and went. IT WAS AWESOME!!!! We had seen Journey and Def Leopard a couple of years ago at Cricket Pavilion. It was OK. And it was outside and hot. But not this time. Dodge Theater is air conditioned! The seats we got (last minute) were great seats. 20 rows up from the stage and dead center. PERFECT!!! Couldn't ask for better seats. It was loud and smokey, and it was great. I can't wait for the next concert. Now that I cleaned the cotton out of my ears. There are a lot of great bands coming this year. 2009 is going to be a rocking year for us.

Above are some of the pictures that I took. Some were blurry so I tried not to add them. Enjoy!!

Janna's Graduation from TCU

2009-05-15T14:46:00.000-07:00

I am so proud to announce that my sister graduated from Texas Christian University in Texas. I flew in Friday 5/8/09 last minute and was there to see her walk across the stage on Saturday. Plus I got to spend Mother's Day with my mom. Then flew home Monday night. It was such a fast trip but sooo worth it.

Boz's First Time at a Dog Park

2009-05-06T14:26:00.000-07:00

So today I took Boz to his first dog park. And I got to bragg a little. He was very well behaved. He played really good with the other dogs and had lots of fun. I knew it would be hot by this afternoon. The weatherman was stating that it was suppose to be 100 degrees by the time Chad would come home. So I googled dog parks in Arizona and found one that was near us. So we took Chad to work, came home, I took a shower and then we headed of to the park about 10 am. We stayed for two hours! And by the time we left I could tell that the temp had already begin to rise. We then wen to Sonic for me to get something to eat and to get some ice water for Boz.

All in all Boz made some new friends and lucky for me (at least I hope I am lucky) he was able to run out all his stored up energy. So tonight we can go to bed early. We shall see!

Enjoy the pics!!!

Boz' s Graduation from Puppy Class

2009-05-06T14:20:00.000-07:00

So this past Saturday, 5/2, Boz completed puppy class at Pets Mart. He even got a certificate! And of course I couldn't resist not taking a picture. To bad they didn't have a cap and tassel to put on him. It would have been a cute picture. He passed with flying colors! After graduation the other puppy that was in the clas and him played. It was the first time in a month that Boz wanted anything to do with her. It was weird. They started off as friends and then one day Boz would growl at her and wanted nothing to do with her. Then on the last day of all days, he actually played with her. She actually wrested him down to the ground. It was cute to watch. And take pictures.

Enjoy!!

Camping with Friends @ Milk Ranch Point (4/23-25/09)

2009-05-03T20:27:00.000-07:00

So I know this was like two weeks ago, I am just now getting around to blogging. Lots of things happening. Boz and I went camping with friends of ours, Steve and Natalie and their two dogs Zero and Zuzu. We had such a good time. We camped out about 30 minutes north of Payson, AZ. Just above where the girls go for girls camp. We got there around 11pm and set up camp. At least the tent. It was cold! The next morning when I got up, the sun was coming up and the birds were singing. With arriving at night you couldn't see anything. We had found a camp site that was close to the rim of the canyon. The view was amazing! We got up had breakfast and then sat around reading. Took a nap and just enjoyed the day. We even went down the the lake and Steve played fetch with Zero. It was so cute. Steve would thrown the stick into the lake and Zero would go after it. Then after getting out of the water would shake and then roll on the ground. He was so muddy! But is was cute. Then we headed back to camp and built a fire and watched the sun set. We cooked chicken with zucchini and squash (thanks for the awesome receipt Natalie!). YUMMY!!!! Then had smores. It was a great night. We then put the dogs to bed and stayed up playing games. So much fun!

Friday morning we got up and had breakfast. Steve and I had to be at Camp Lo Mia at 9 am for pre-camp hike day. We were going up to hike Temple Canyon. This year the Stake has decided not to hike the East Rim and to do Temple Canyon. Since its been a while since anyone has been up that trail they needed people to hike and mark the trail. We even brought Zero and Zuzu with us. And there were two other ladies with us. I didn't know if I would make it up the trail. I am so out of shape. Well I said my prayer and away we went. I had to take lots of breaks and even used taking pictures as an excuse. But all in all I only fell 4 times and hit my head once.

I had the greatest experience on the hike. With saying my prayer and keeping that in my heart and head I knew that everything we going to be good and that I was going to make it. I started out in front and ended up behind everyone. The feeling of arms wrapped around me and the whispering of "get up, you can do it", with each time that I fell, just reaffirmed to me that prayers are answered. That I wasn't alone. That my Heavenly Father was there for me helping me up to my feet and giving me the encouragement that I needed to reach the top of the trail. And I made it. I know that each time that I fell and will continue to fall in my life that my Heavenly Father was and is their for me to wrap His arms around me to help me up and to whisper in my ear, "get up, you can do it". If I listen intently to the promptings and to also remember to say my prayers I am blessed. I am grateful for that knowledge and for the love of my Heavenly Father.

There was a scary moment on the hike that I still can't believe Zero was not hurt really bad. There is a spot on the trail where you have to hold onto a chain/cable and pull yourself up. Since we had the dogs there was no way that they could have gotten up with out being pulled up. So Steve climbed up and then I handed the dogs to him. Well, Zero got to close to the edge (after getting to the top) and ended up sliding down the rocks , going over the edge, landing on his back, turning over and falling over the next rock and lading on his paws. We was not hurt, more shaken up then hurt. Freaked me and Steve out like crazy! I climbed down one rock and one of the ladies that was hiking went over to Zero to check him out. From what she could see nothing was broken. Once I climbed down and got him and then handed him to Steve. That was the last time Zero got close to the edge. Once all of us where at the top, Steve took a good look at Zero and everything was good. He was a little sore for a couple of days. Then we hiked another 200 yards and were done. YEA! Natalie was waiting for us with Boz (I am so glad that I didn't take him with me. Maybe when he is older!) and then we headed back to camp. We decided to break down camp and get lunch in Payson. This way we can get on the road. It didn't take that long to pack up. Then headed home.

It was so nice to be home! And to take a shower!!! Boz was soooo dirty. I had to let the water run clear (like dying your hair) and then wash him with his shampoo twice! Then we had to rush off to puppy class.

All in all it was a very awesome time. I can't wait till the next time. Hopefully Chad can go with us! Hope you enjoy the pictures that I took. I am waiting on a few pics from Natalie with all three of the dogs. Will add them once I get them.

Sleeps all the Time

2009-04-13T19:00:00.001-07:00

After we got home from IKEA we went into the office to set the desk up that we got and wouldn't you know Boz was napping again! I swear all he does is sleep! But he sure does look so peaceful when is sleeping.

Laziness or Smart?

2009-04-13T18:49:00.000-07:00

Chad and I decided that we needed to re-arrange our second bedroom to create a home office. Chad was off on Good Friday and so we started going through the bedroom and getting rid of stuff that we don't need. As we were doing so I looked behind me and saw how much help Boz was giving us. (See above pics) He is such a good help isn't he? I thought it was too cute not to get a picture of him napping while we are cleaning.

Mesa, AZ Easter Pageant - Jesus The Christ

2009-04-09T20:13:00.000-07:00

No matter how many times I see this pageant, I still feel the spirit. It was awesome and I can't wait to see it again next year. I took some pictures and above are the ones that came out enough to post. I did take an awesome picture of Christ last year and I am thinking about printing it and framing it for our home. Then on the other hand Mark Mabry has a picture (that is hard for me to put to words) that he took that has become my favorite. It is the one of Christ all in white and His back it to the camera and you see Christ's hand and the nail mark. That to me is so powerful. But anywho, hope you enjoy the pics and hope that all go and see it.

Mesa, AZ Temple Easter Pageant

2009-04-06T07:40:00.001-07:00

This Wednesday our Youth will be attending the Mesa Temple Pageant. If you have not seen it you should plan to attend. It is a great pageant to see. Chad and I hope to see all the other pageants at the other Temples some day.

Happy Easter everyone!

Seasons of Marriage by Dr. Elia Gourgouris

2009-04-04T09:00:00.000-07:00

Nature has her seasons—summer, fall, winter, spring—but so does each marriage. How do we make it through each—and love it? The following are suggestions on how to thrive, not just survive.

What is it that separates successful couples from those that chronically struggle in their marriage? One of the critical differences I've observed over the last twenty years as a marriage counselor and coach is their ability to navigate through the different "marriage seasons."

These seasonal ups and downs can occur during any phase of marriage, the first of which is the newlywed phase, where couples first establish their priorities and learn to share their lives together. That phase is followed by the "having children" phase, and then the "raising a family" phase, which is usually the most demanding, stressful, and "endure-to-the-end" sort of phase. After all those years, couples finally enter the last phase, called the "empty nester," and they are fully engaged in helping out with the grandkids and enjoying a second honeymoon.

Let's back up for a moment though and talk about a basic tenant of all marriages. Every relationship has its very own checking account. Every day, we go to "work" to earn a paycheck, which we deposit into this "account." At the same time we may find ourselves making withdrawals from the marriage account for a variety of reasons. The health of our marital checkbook will depend on the difference between these deposits and withdrawals.

Before we get married, the deposits are plentiful and the withdrawals fewâ€”usually making our bank account full. We accomplish that by opening doors and being polite, staying up to talk until the wee hours of the morning, and even more impressively, listening attentively to every word. And when the day is done, we can't wait to reunite so we can do it all over again. The deposits are plentiful, so we proceed to make the most important decision of our lives: to spend our lives - and usually all eternity - together.

Unfortunately, as confirmed by thousands of couples I've interviewed, something happens soon after the honeymoon ends. Sometimes it begins slowly. Other times it's surprising and abrupt. We begin to hear things like, "He/she changed after we got married," or, "We started drifting apart." If those sound familiar to you, well, there's a very logical explanation.

Typically, withdrawals start to increase and deposits start to decrease. It doesn't necessarily happen overnight. It is, however, a steady and progressive depletion of the bank account. Eventually, but not surprisingly, we find ourselves and our marriage living paycheck to emotional paycheck.

The solution to this unfortunate turnaround is the concept of D.T.E. - Define the Expectations. In all relationships, expectations are the key to success or failure.

Clearly communicated, understood, and agreed-upon expectations always lead to deposits; lack of clarity, miscommunication, or disagreements over expectations most likely result in withdrawals. We will be looking at three areas where there is great need for clear expectations during each season: emotional intimacy, spiritual intimacy, and physical intimacy.

Summer

Summer love is bliss, and newlyweds shower each other with deposits. But surprisingly, in the first six months of my own marriage, my wife and I both felt like we weren't getting our needs met. How was that possible when we both felt like we were working so hard on our marriage? So much love, hope, and optimism about our eternal union, and yet we were not fully connecting. It was puzzling. Fortunately, we were able to set aside our hurt feelings and sit down and very openly and honestly discuss our differences. We had to learn to identify our love languages.

We quickly learned that we were both giving what we hoped the other person would give back in return. My love language was physical touch; different from sexual touch, I felt love through holding hands, hugs and kisses, and back and feet rubs. I used this language to show love to my wife - for the first six months of our marriage, I hugged and kissed her to death. But that's not how she felt love. She felt love through words of affirmation. And she showed it this way; I had never been thanked so many times about everything I did.

After we identified these differences came the hard part. The key to success is to love your spouse the way he or she needs to feel loved, not what comes easily or naturally to you. It's in the getting outside of our comfort zone and "stretching" that true love and service can be found.

The change to our marriage took place the night after we spoke, when she cooked a delicious dinner. I thanked her and complimented her on her cooking. The results were almost magical: she started hugging and kissing me, and I've been saying "thank you" ever since!

The most common five love languages - according to The Five Love Languages author Dr. Gary Chapman - are acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, gifts, and quality time. It is vitally important to take the time to ask specifically what things make one another feel the most loved . . . and then become willing to show your love in that manner, even if it doesn't come easily. Note that as time and circumstances change, so do our love languages. It is important to re-check with each other every few years to make sure that we are still putting deposits in the right account!

Defining spiritual expectations plays a vital role in establishing a spiritual home. One of the best habits to establish early on is reading the scriptures together and saying couple prayers. If this is not established during this phase, I can promise you that when the next phase comes around, it will be missing in action.

Physical intimacy can be one of the most powerful and beautiful ways of communicating love to one another. Tenderness and consideration for each othersâ€™ feelings is of utmost importance. Conversely, lack of these qualities can very easily empty the account. Communicating expectations and desires is a critical factor in ensuring that falling in love goes far beyond the initial physical attraction. It encompasses a deep and profound emotional and spiritual connection, an attractiveness of the mind, heart, and spirit - a friendship that will endure well in the decades ahead.

Fall

The fall intimacy season usually arrives with the welcome news of, "Honey, guess what- I'm pregnant." Though that's said in jest, it is true. Fall can be a great season as we prepare for the arrival of our first child and transition from being a couple to a family.
As for emotional intimacy, this is perhaps the greatest time to bond. Once again, we need to redefine our expectations as our emotional intimacy enters a new phase. Husbands have a tremendous opportunity to exceed expectations by extending themselves in service. Helping out at home, as well as being more patient, will go a long way toward maintaining our connection. If ever there was a time for us to activate our "sensitivity gene," this is the time! And for the wife, the attention naturally shifts more toward her, so she should make sure that her husband doesnâ€™t feel left out.

Make Friday or Saturday night a date night. My wife and I made this a priority early on, and I can honestly say that we have kept up on our date nights quite consistently. Over the years, social activities, travel, illness, or other unforeseen events have kept us from dating every single week. It's interesting to notice, however, that if we miss more than two weeks in a row, we both start to feel somewhat disconnected.

Physical intimacy naturally changes when a couple is expecting their first child. The priority shifts from "the two of us" to "starting a family." During this time it is very important to maintain a physical connection, even if frequency is not as regular. It is paramount that the husband continues to compliment his wife as her body changes. This is likely the first time she's undergoing so many dramatic changes with hormones and body image, etc., and her self-esteem can dip dramatically.

Winter

Now we have what is called the "winter of our discontent" in terms of relationships. It could be because the exhausted and overwhelmed couple is now expecting another child, and the others are all under age six, or because they have drifted apart over the years. Whatever the reason, it does not mean they have to stay disconnected forever. If there are unresolved issues that have gotten in the way of intimacy, they need to be addressed and resolved. Often resolving this discontent takes a concerted effort to reconnect emotionally with one another. Spending quality time together is no longer just a suggestion - it's a necessity.

Here are some suggestions: Even though both parties are exhausted at the end of the day, have a fifteen-minute minute pillow talk and catch up. Go for a walk around the block while pushing the stroller - talking (and more importantly listening) to each other will bring great rewards. I again highly encourage that when we feel disconnected, we re-examine each other's love languages. Remember that over time we all change. Perhaps the husband has been traveling recently and craves quality time with his wife. In years past, quality time was third or fourth on his list, but with the change in circumstances, his needs have shifted. Without an honest discussion, that need could easily fall through the cracks.

I also extend a word of caution in the area of spiritual intimacy during this season. Through my personal and professional experience, I have come to the following conclusion: couple scripture study and prayers are almost nonexistent. Most of us say our family and personal prayers and read scriptures with our kids, but by the time the last kid is in bed, we're too tired to pray together. At no other time in our marriage is it more important to connect spiritually with one another and ask for divine assistance for our marriage, our children, and ourselves. This is the time we need most to be going on weekly datesâ€”and yes, going to the temple counts as a date!

Spring

Just as nature renews itself, so can marriages. Rest assured - even after the fiercest winter, spring will come. The pregnancy phase eventually stops. Kids grow up and become more independent. Stress and time demands usually diminish. This is the time to cash in on the years of effort you've put into your marriage, working through issues and sacrificing for one another. This season is the reward.

I know of so many couples who are now in their 50s and 60s who are enjoying a renewal in their relationship. For some it's even better than seasons enjoyed before. These couples have grown closer together over the years, matured, endured life's difficulties, and they have improved their emotional and spiritual intimacy. Physical closeness is now the icing on the cake for enduring so well. Finally they have the opportunity to experience the warmth and renewal of life, hope, and love that surely comes with the spring.
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Dr. Elia Gourgouris is a nationally known speaker and marriage expert and the author of The Multi-Platinum Marriage: Going from Just Surviving to Thriving! With over twenty years of experience, he coaches LDS couples throughout the United States and enjoys speaking at BYU Education Week and Time Out for Women. He and his wife, Sona, live near Boulder, Colorado, with their children. You can reach Dr. Gourgouris at LDSCoaching.com or AskDrElia.com.

LDS Living, March/April 2009; Photo from SaskatoonPhotography.co.nr

Fast Trip To Texas

2009-04-02T11:59:00.001-07:00

Well I know its been a little bit since I blogged. What a week I had. I took a last minute flight to Texas this past week. I flew out 3/24 and flew home 3/31.

I surprised my sister and flew to Texas. She did not see me until Tuesday night when my Dad and a friend of the family went to giver her a blessing the night before her surgery. I rang the doorbell and she opened the door. She was totally speechless and then I stepped in and we hugged and then she cried. What a moment.

Wednesday was a little ruff on her. But all in all the surgery went well. We got her home and it was a ruff night. But the days to follow were a lot better. Now she is back to work and school and I came home.

We did BBQ Sunday for my Dad's birthday and I got to hang out with my Nieces while I was there. i also made time to have lunch with my Father-In-Law and my Brother-In-Law and his wife and Chad's Dad's Cousin Dorinda. Janna also came with me to the lunch. It was so much fun!

Even though it was a fast and short trip, it was still a great vacation (even though it was work). And I missed my Husband and my doggy!

Hard Worker

2009-03-13T13:09:00.000-07:00

I couldn't help but grab my camera and snap a quick picture of Boz. I was sitting at the table working on my computer and he was barking at me. So I picked him up and stuck him on the table. I know its not sanitary, but we don't eat at the table and I promise to clean it when he is done napping. Anyways, I look over and he is asleep next to my computer. I guess I am a boring person. Anyways, I grabbed my camera, set up a makeshift tripod and set the timer. I couldn't help it. He looked so cute.

I took him to the vet's office yesterday for the first time. He got his Rabies shot. Now he is current on all shots. Plus they weighed him. Boz is now 13 wks old and weighs 18 lbs. Boz got a clean bill of health from the vet.

He started puppy classes last Saturday and has another one tomorrow. Hopefully we can get him to stop barking and biting whenever we are in the kitchen. I sure can't wait till he gets bigger and can hold his bladder. Poor Chad takes him out in the middle of the night (he offered!).

I guess Boz is really preparing us for kids!!

New Addition To The Wells Family

2009-03-01T21:04:00.000-08:00

Well I am proud to say that we are now parents. He is 11 weeks old and his name is Boz. We brought him home Saturday afternoon. He was born 12/9/08. Oh and by the way did I mention he is a Chow/Shepard mix dog! Did you think I was talking about a baby. Well in a way he is. Since he is only 11 weeks he is a baby. Tonight will be the second night home. The first was a little rough. I had to sleep next to his crate to get him to not whine and bark. Then getting up at 4 am to walk him. Oh man was that rough! Then he was left alone the first hour of church. When I went home to check on him he was barking and whining. I hung out with him for an hour till he fell asleep and then headed back to church for the last hour. Hopefully he will get better at being by himself. I am hesitant on how the second night is going to go. Can't wait! Oh by the way here are a couple of pics.

I can already tell his personality. He loves to lay right in front of the front door or on the bathroom floor. He is smart, loving and fun! As soon as I saw him and he saw me he laid right at my feet and I new he was mine. We adopted him and brought him home. We start obedience training this Saturday. Will keep you posted.

Well that's it for now.

Best Lunch Date

2009-02-22T21:58:00.000-08:00

I had the best lunch date this past week. I made arrangements to take my Grandmother (Grandma Ann) to lunch. We have not seen each other since December and it was about time I payed a visit. We had so much fun! We went to Super Salad. I love that place. We sat and talked for 2 hours! I always love spending time with her. I also love sitting and talking with my Grandfather (Grandpa Andy). I love listening to the stories that he tells and the memories that he shares. I am so lucky to live so close to them and I don't take advantage on visiting then often. But not this year! I plan to visit with them till they are sick of seeing me. But I know that won't happen.

Thank you Grandma for one of the best lunch dates I have had in a while. I look forward to our next lunch date!

Best Valentine's Day

2009-02-22T21:43:00.000-08:00

I know that I am a little late in writing this, but it has been on my mind a lot lately. This year for Valentine's Day we went to my cousin's house for a waffle breakfast party. We were celebrating his daughter's birthday. Happy 1 year Holly!!! From there we ran a few errands and then Chad said that I had an appointment. I asked where and he dropped me off at the nail salon by our apartment. He said that for Valentine's Day my gift was a manny and peddy. It was great to be pampered and much better than chocolates. Well I at least helped him eat the ones that I got him. Then he took me to Chili's and we had a great lunch. From there we went and rented a few movies and stayed in the rest of the night. I think we even got a nap in after lunch since we were up so early.

I am so lucky to have such a wonderful husband. Some one who works hard, but also loves spending time with me. I know that at times I don't say it but I love and think of him from the time that I get up to the time I we kneel and say prayers and go to bed. Thank you honey for all that you do for us. I love you so much and I want the world to know!

Fireproof Movie

2009-02-16T13:16:00.000-08:00

We were told of this movie by my Aunt and Uncle. They went to the movies and saw this film. They highly recommended it. So when we were at blockbuster on Saturday and saw that it was out we rented it. Let me just say that it was the best movie that we rented that evening. It was also the best movie to watch on Valentine's Day. It really made us appreciate each other more.

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Here is what the movie is about:

At work, inside burning buildings, Capt. Caleb Holt lives by the old firefighter's adage: Never leave your partner behind. At home, in the cooling embers of his marriage, he lives by his own rules.

Growing up, Catherine Holt always dreamed of marrying a loving, brave firefighter...just like her daddy. Now, after seven years of marriage, Catherine wonders when she stopped being "good enough" for her husband.

Regular arguments over jobs, finances, housework, and outside interests have readied them both to move on to something with more sparks.

As the couple prepares to enter divorce proceedings, Caleb's father challenges his son to commit to a 40-day experiment: "The Love Dare." Wondering if it's even worth the effort, Caleb agrees-for his father's sake more than for his marriage. When Caleb discovers the book's daily challenges are tied into his parents' newfound faith, his already limited interest is further dampened.

While trying to stay true to his promise, Caleb becomes frustrated time and again. He finally asks his father, "How am I supposed to show love to somebody who constantly rejects me?"

When his father explains that this is the love Christ shows to us, Caleb makes a life-changing commitment to love God. And with God's help he begins to understand what it means to truly love his wife.

But is it too late to fireproof his marriage? His job is to rescue others. Now Caleb Holt is ready to face his toughest job ever...rescuing his wife's heart.
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Even though it is not product by the LDS church, it still carries a spiritual message. Letting God into your marriage and having Him be the foundation is essential. It definitely opened our eyes to strengthening our marriage.

I say to anyone, don't go out and rent it, BUY it! We are definitely adding it to our library. Plus The Love Dare book featured in the movie is also published to help you day by day for 40 days. It will also be added to our book library.

Burn One Week Later

2009-02-03T02:37:00.001-08:00

Just thought I would add an updated picture of my burn. It is healing quit nicely. I might have a scar when its completely healed. I will have to come up with a better story to tell my kids and grandkids if it does scar. Hopefully another week or so and it should be gone. At least it doesn't hurt.

Clumsy Me!

2009-01-25T20:37:00.000-08:00

Since I took a three hour nap Saturday after the Hike with our Young Women I was up late (no surprise there anyway!) and I was working on the handouts for my lesson. Once I was done I wanted to finish putting together the magnets for when I do my lesson on the chalkboard. I printed out each YW value (including the new one), colored and cut them out. I had magnets that are self adhesive, so I out together 4 sets of each of the values. Then I took clear round stones and hot glued the stones to the top of the value with the magnet on the bottom. Well I got 10 done and was going great. That is until I had a stone with hot glue on it and was turning it over to place it on the magnet and I dropped it. Well the natural reaction is to catch it. And that is what I did. I grabbed it and of course the hot side landed on my hand. (Just to let you know that this was at 1:00 am and Chad was sleeping.) I quickly peeled off the stone, rushed to the sink and ran my hand under cold water. (All while doing this trying not to scream my head off). Once the glue dried I sat at the table and peeled the glue off. Then I went to my bathroom and put some neosporane and a ban-daid. Then I glued the rest on. So by 2:00 am I wrapped up what I was doing and went to bed. It was tough sleeping. Ususally I slep with my right hand under my face or pillow. Well even sleeping was tough. I could still feel the burn all night.

Lets just say that I am greatful for having both hands. It was tough getting ready for church (and by the way we have early morning Church, 9:00 am). It was tough for me to get up this morning. But I think if I keep a bandage on it, I hope it will heal in a week or so. And I hope not to do that again!!!

Hiking Camelback Mountain 1/24/09

2009-01-25T17:56:00.001-08:00

We were suppose to take the Young Women in our ward on a snow trip. Well its kind of hard without the snow. We were hoping we would get a storm system to come through. Well we did, but all it brought was rain. Darn! Or I should at least be thankful that we got rain or at least the outlying areas got rain. So last Wednesday our Bishop offered a hiking trip instead. We got some hesitation , but then the girls were up to it.

Then my alarm went off at 5:00 am Saturday morning. As I turned it off I thought to myself, what the heck am I doing up so early. Then it hit me, HIKING!! So I got up showered (more to wake up then anything else) got dressed and headed out the door at 6:00 am. We met at our Bishop's house and then took off about 6:30 am. We headed to Camelback Mountain. It was amazing. I haven't been up that early in a long time and especially not on a Saturday. But the view was sooo worth it. We got to the mountain and got to our first stop just as the sun was coming up. It was awesome. I can't say it enough. It was beautiful!! We were under a cloud cover, but it was, indescribable.

I brought up the rear and at times I didn't think I was going to make it. And I am pretty sure I also passed out a couple of times. We got to the "saddle" of the mountain and some wanted to stop there and go back down. Then others wanted to continue. I asked how much farther up and our Bishop said only about 30 minutes and that the view was soooo worth it. I had to decide, continue or give up and throw in the towel and go back down. Some of the girls that were continuing on said that they would take pictures for me. But I knew that the pictures would not be the same unless I saw the views for myself. So me, our Bishop and three of our girls pushed forward. The other two leaders and the other three girls with the other priesthood holder decide to head back down to the van.

As we continued up and each stop to rest we would turn around and look. Breathtaking!!! As the sun shown through the clouds and you saw the rays coming through, you couldn't help but be in awe of His creation. To be thankful for all that was created and to see the beauty that was all around us. It definitely was a testimony builder. As we made it to the top another breath taking view. Even though we are in the valley, to be right in the middle of all the mountains and to see as far as we could. WOW!!! I just can't say enough. Put I will let the pictures speak for themselves.

Even though my whole body hurts (still one day later) and I did take a three hour nap when I got home, I would do it again in a heart beat. It was the best Saturday in a long time. I know my body will heal and the pictures and memories I will have a lifetime.

Happy New Year!!!

2009-01-04T18:19:00.001-08:00

So I know I am late when I say Happy New Year!

Chad and I went over to my cousin Janelle's house and spent ringing in the new year playing Rock Band and hanging out with my cousins. It was so much fun, thank you Eric and Janelle for hosting New Year's Eve again. We had a blast partying! Sorry we got lost on the way. But thanks to cellphones and having your number we made it.

We always love hanging out and partying with you guys.

We would like to wish everyone a Happy New Year and may your 2009 be filled with love, laughter and God Blessings.

Wells Family Newsletter 2008

2008-12-30T11:43:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

Chad and I would like to take a moment to share with you our 2008. So grab some eggnog and here it is in a nutshell.
1. We played in the snow in Flagstaff after driving only 2-hrs north from the warm Phoenix valley climate.
2. Chad’s brother Vernon visited with us for a week during the Super Bowl.
3. Jlynn joined a scrapbook page swap group.
4. We celebrated our 6th year of marriage. Our 4th of July Trip was our anniversary present!
5. We upgraded to a two-bedroom apartment; right next door!
6. We attended Chad’s friend Rick’s graduation for his MBA at Arizona State University.
7. Went to Church Girl’s camp. Chad and our friend Steve came up and camped out somewhere outside of camp in 35-degree morning air where Chad won the snoring contest and must’ve warded off any bears. The next day they both went on the adventure hikes with us.
8. We spent the 4th of July in San Diego, L.A., and Thousand Oaks CA coming back via Palm Springs. We stopped to visit the LA Temple and a few others along the way.
9. We toured the USS Midway that is docked in the San Diego Bay.
10. We played in the Pacific Ocean in Malibu where Chad searched and searched for a paparazzi moment for the national enquirer, but to no avail.
11. We watched the sun set over the ocean at Point Mugu, CA and saw where Jlynn went to elementary school, and the base where her and her family once lived.
12. We toured the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library and the retired Air Force-One in Semi Valley.
13. We went tubing down the Salt River with bed sheets and a backpack full of Dasani water back in Mesa.
14. We celebrated Chad’s birthday with Crispy Cream Doughnuts and a few candles.
15. Chad’s brother Vernon visited again, this time he didn’t have to sleep on the couch-bed.
16. We went to another Diamondback’s game - The best seats as always.
17. We both joined a gym called “Snap Fitness” we’ve got about 35 workouts in so far. Chad likes to go late, I like to go early.
18. We went to Sedona and the Grand Canyon again; this time we took Vernon, Chad’s brother.
19. We flew to Jacksonville FL and drove two hours north into GA to visit my Brother Justin, Mom and Dad, and attended my Sister-In-Law’s baptism. Then we got a flat tire on the rental car right as we pulled into the airport returning from GA, had to flip-flop it across the parking lot in the rain pulling all our luggage, almost missing our return flight to Tampa, then on to Phoenix. Luckily the plane was late, so we actually made it.
20. Jlynn took a “time out” and spent a weekend with Mom and Janna in San Antonio. Hey Ya’ll.
21. Jlynn got out of the hotel industry after 6 years and is keeping busy with stuff like writing this Christmas letter and adjusting to being a housewife.
22. Chad saved his company a significant amount of money this last year through unrecognized improvements. He says, “When you’re not in sales that is quite an accomplishment”. He continues to excel in his role as the controller there.
23. We watched Chad’s sister’s wild “pet” deer bathe the kittens like a mother cat. Now that’s Silly.
24. Found out that one of the Bee Gees has moved next door to Chad’s sister. Stay’n Alive in the Country we guess.
25. We shot pistols at a pumpkin at Chad’s brother G’s and his wife Nicole’s house and celebrated Thanksgiving early with him before he left again for another Iraq tour. The pumpkin lived. The Turkey didn’t!
26. We had Thanksgiving Day dinner at Chad’s Granddad’s with is Uncle Johnny and Aunt Cheryl and all the rest of the family. Hi Granddad! Hey Johnny!
27. We celebrated Jlynn’s birthday in TN with Chad’s nephew Hunter, Edward, Bella, and every mother daughter combination in Columbia at 12 Midnight to watch Twilight. Also, on the way home stopped as 6 deer crossed the road in front of us just down from Chad’s mom’s house. We really enjoyed our visit with Mom and Norvel. We went shopping with Mom in Cool Springs then stopped for a strawberry frappuccino and yummy hot chocolate at Starbucks. Thank you guys so much for a wonderful Thanksgiving visit! “Supper was good!”
28. We watched The University of North Texas get stomped by the Mighty Blue Raiders of Middle Tennessee State with Chad’s cousin Eddy -52 to 13 – and we froze our toes off. Also, thanks for the Tour-de-France. Chad says to Eddy he’s sorry he missed his “Q” to the Wayne’s World head banging sequence of the Queen song on the way to the game. Next Time! You and Jlynn rocked it though!
29. We had instant banana pudd’n at Aunt Sue’s; get some! Compliments of Uncle Kelsie. Hey Angie!!
30. We watched James Bond blow stuff up with Mom and Dad at the Harkens in Tempe. Thanks Dad!
31. We “partied” at Barcelona’s in Scottsdale, AZ at Chad’s company’s 2008 Christmas party. What a Blast!
32. We took a picture with Santa at the Church Christmas Party.
33. Attended the annual Mesa Temple Christmas Lights.
34. We are looking forward to spending Christmas in Texas with Chad’s family the first half and Jlynn’s family the second half.
35. We are also looking forward to maybe going to the Grapevine Opry again while we are there. What a blast from the past that will be!!!
36. Last but not least, Chad tawt he taw a puddy tat.
37. Jlynn did see a puddy tat.

What a year. We hope that next year our family will be filled with little toes and fingers. We would like all family and friends to know that we are adopting and hope to be certified by the end of January. If you happen to know anyone needing a loving home for their little one, please keep us in mind.

We wish you all peace, prosperity, joy, and a very Merry Christmas. May you all find the abundant blessings of the Lord this season and always.

Love, Chad & Jlynn

P.S. You can also checkout our blog at www.chad-jlynn-wells-family.blogspot.com for up to date adventures!

Christmas 2008

2008-12-30T09:11:00.000-08:00

Well after 10 long years the Bernard Circus finally came to town. Chad and I flew to Texas and my brother Justin and his family drove in from GA. It has been 10 years since my Mom and Dad have had all their kids home for Christmas. My Brother Jared hosted Christmas dinner and also had Chad and I stay at their house. Justin and his family stayed with my parents.

But first we stayed at Chad's Brother's house. We flew in Friday 12/19 and stayed until Christmas Eve. Chad's Dad came and stayed with us so that we could visit with him. We drove out to Tyler to visit his Aunt & Uncle on Monday. It was an all day event. We first had to run a few errands and then had a late lunch with Aunt Rose and Uncle Danny. Then Christmas Eve we drove over to my Brother's house.

It was so much fun waking up Christmas morning and watching my Niece open presents. Although she wasn't much interested in opening all her presents in the morning. In fact it took her Mom and Dad to open the rest at 11:00 pm that night. Everyone started coming over about noon to start cooking. And then we ate by 3:30 pm. It was so much fun to see everyone and to put aside differences. I think it help everyone re-connect. I hope we get together sooner than 10 years from now. I can't believe how much all my nieces and nephews have grown!

Then we took family pictures and that was a circus in itself. It was sooo much fun! Afterwards the kids opened presents that the adults got them. Then Chad turned to me and said that I had something under the tree. I said are you kidding and he said, i don't know, don't you want to look. So I did and sure enough I had a present under the tree. I opened it and it was a picture of the Cricut Express. He had gotten it for me and it was waiting for me at home. I was so surprised because our Christmas present to each other was flying out to see family.

And to cap off the exciting trip my Brother Justin was finally ordained an Elder. It was perfect. What an example to His son Aidan. Now there will be three generations on Priesthood Holders when Aidan gets older. Then we went back to Jared and Vicki's house for lunch and packing. We then headed to the airport about 3:00 pm to catch our flight. The flight back went very smooth and we even got to go to San Antonio on our way back. Then our wonderful friend Natalie picked us up from the airport.

I still can't believe how fast the time went! Now its back to normal life and can't wait to ring in the new year with family. Party at the Monroe's New Year's Eve! Can't wait.

Alma 11th Ward Christmas Party

2008-12-15T19:08:00.000-08:00

Our Ward Christmas Party was this past Saturday (12/13, also my Mom's Birthday, Happy Birthday Mom!). We got there just in time to sit on Santa's Lap and take a picture.

We stayed about 30 minutes and then left to go to Chad's company's Christmas Party in Scottsdale at a restaurant called Barcelona's. It was a really nice place. The food was really good and then there was dancing and music afterwards. The place got packed around 10:30 pm. We stayed until midnight and then left to go home. I think we stayed longer at this one than previous years. It was fun to hangout and to hear the music. Can't wait till next year. Maybe it can be closer, who knows.

Mesa Temple Lights

2008-12-15T18:42:00.000-08:00

So we went with our good friends Steve and Natalie to the Mesa Temple Lights. It was so cool. It is our third time going and I am always amazed at how many lights there are. We had a blast hanging out with them and we got some really cool pictures. Here are a few that actually came out good.

We want all to have a ver Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Happy Late Thanksgiving

2008-12-01T20:07:00.000-08:00

Well we made it back from TN and had such a wonderful time! I didn't take as many pictures as I usually do. I will add some as I go along.

It was great seeing all the family again and also to see the rolling green hills. It was also very very very cold. I had to buy s scarf and gloves. I was glad that I took three jackets and my lined boots (which I wore the entire time to keep my feet warm). We got in Wednesday around 10:00 pm to Chad's Mom's house. We flew into Nashville and then rented a car and drove south for an hour. Any who, we celebrated Thanksgiving early. His brother was in for only 4 days. G was scheduled to go back overseas and had to leave to go back to Indiana on Sunday. So we gathered at G and Nicol's house on Friday (11/21) and had Thanksgiving Dinner. It was so much fun. Chad's sister even made a Birthday cake for me. That was sooo sweet I guess Chad made a call to her and even had to call a friend of his nephews to get a cake mix.

Then after we had dinner we hung out at his Brother's house until 6pm. Then we headed over to Chad's Granddad's house for a visit. Chad decided that we would go see Twilight that night (since I pouted so much cause I wanted to see it on my Birthday), so we dropped by the theater and got tickets. The movie started at 9:40 pm and his nephew wanted to come (Hunter I still can't believe you came). Anywho, we went over to Chad's Granddad's for a couple of hours. His Granddad is sooo sweet! I love that man. His wife pasted away a few months ago, so this will be the first holiday season without her. She was such a lovely lady. I know that we will see her again.

Then we headed to the movies!!! YEAH!!! We had to wait 45 minutes in line (not bad). There were 2 lines waiting for one theater and trust me when I say this, they were pushy! But we got in and had great seats. For me I think the book was better. I felt like the movie missed some of the background that needed to be in there and the house, don't even get me started on Edwards house. It was all wrong! It was funny, I kept talking in the movie and Chad had to lean over a few times to shush me. Ok it was like 10 times. But over all I think the movie was good. It would have been better if I hadn't already read the book. I am curious to see the next one. They are already started filming it I was told.

We mostly hung out at either Chad's mom's house or his Sister's house. We did go over on Tuesday night to his Cousin's house. I love Eddie and Janet! If I could live anywhere it would be either next to his sister or cousin's house. Their girls are sooo sweet and I can't believe how big they have gotten. We went over for dinner and Eddie brought out their pictures from their trip to France. I am so jealous! They got to go and what a trip it was. Eddie even did a PowerPoint of the pictures to include facts. I couldn't help but laugh. I thought it was sooo cute. We then headed to his sister's house (11:00pm) to spend the night. Chad had to do payroll.

His sister and I and her stepmother headed to Lawrenceburg (when the Mennonites live) to do some antique shopping. I got a lace table runner for our new table and a wooden napkin holder with matching salt and pepper shakers. They are had made by the Mennonites. I love shopping at their stores. They make so many beautiful things. I wanted a quilt, but I new I couldn't fit it in my suitcase.

We did got up to the mall with Chad's mom and spent the entire day on Tuesday looking around. She had to return something and then we were looking for a blouse for her. But we couldn't find anything she liked so then we wondered the mall for a bit and then headed out about 3pm. We knew we were going over to his cousin's house that night so we headed home. We drove through Springhill (Where the Saturn plant is. Well its not a Saturn plant anymore. Now its just GM.) to see how the area has grown. I spotted a Starbucks and made him drive through for hot chocolate. I love their hot chocolate and this was for the first time I seen a Starbucks.

Did I mention that we also froze our butts off at the football game? We went Saturday. MTSU (Middle TN State University) was playing UNT (University of North Texas) was playing. We went with Eddie (Chad's cousin) and his daughter and two boys that were sons of Eddie's. So it was Eddie's school verses Chad's school.

It was really cold and said to say that MTSU smoked UNT. The final score was 52 to 13.

But over all we had a great trip and can't wait to see everyone again. Now the next trip is TX for Christmas. Can't wait! I think that is all for now I know that I am forgetting a lot but I figure I had bored you enough.

Hello From Tennessee

2008-11-26T16:15:00.000-08:00

Well this evening is the first time I have been near a computer with Internet. Chad and I flew to TN for Thanksgiving last Wednesday and have been having the time of our lives visiting with family. We had Thanksgiving dinner early cause his brother was in town for a short time (4 days) and he is getting ready to ship out back over seas with the TN National Guard. I have taken lots of pictures and can't wait to up load them for everyone to see.

One thing we did do is Friday (11/21, My Birthday) Chad took me to see Twilight. We even took Chad's nephew with us. I guess he wanted to hang out with us. Thank you Chad for making that effort and taking me even though at first you didn't want to see it. But Chad really enjoyed the movie, even though I had a lot to say about it.

We fly back this Friday night and then he has work on Monday. Then we get to see my parents and sister and brother-in-law Saturday night before they leave to go back to Texas. We are all going to see the newest James Bond film. CAN"T WAIT!!! Will update on Saturday after laundry and packing. Just kidding. I will do laundry and unpack after I update everyone.

Till then HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!!!

Halloween Fun

2008-11-05T22:09:00.000-08:00

Chad and I went over to our friend's house for halloween. Our ward had a carnival and we kept hearing about htese fajitas that is served. So we went and checked it out. We ate, hung out for a bit and then went back to their place. We carved pumpkins and watched the Illusionist. It was so much fun. We have so much fun with Steve and Natalie Alger. Thanks for letting us come over for dinner from time to time. Cna't wait till next dinner time!

Time Out For Women

2008-11-05T20:16:00.000-08:00

So I know that a lot of people have been waiting to hear about the Time Out For Women trip that I went on with my Mom and Sister. Well sorry to keep you waiting. Its been crazy since I came back. I will try and fill in what I remember.

So I flew in Thursday night and to my surprise my Brother Jared picked me up at the airport. Have you ever seen those people in the airport that run screaming to their loved one? Well I have and I always wanted to do that. So guess what? I did! I ran screaming out the door and the people around us I could hear laughed. One dream down, one thousand more to go! We got in the car and headed away from the airport. (I landed at 11:00pm). So we stopped at his work so that he could log off his computer and I had to pee. Then we headed for my Sister's place (Janna). And of course we got lost. We spent like thirty minutes driving around and every corner we took Jared was like this doesn't look right. Then we finally got there like 12:45 am. I felt bad for him. He had to get up and go to work in less than 6 hours. So after saying goodnight and goodbye, we got settled in for the night.

Friday morning we got up showered and got ready to head out the door. Janna's husband Jaime dropped us off at Mom's house and we packed up the car and took off on our road trip. We got to our destination in about 4 hours. We finally arrived at the St. Anthony hotel. I love this property. Its a historic hotel and I will only stay there. (www.wyndham.com) We got in around 4 and checked in. Then we headed for the Riverwalk on our first order of business: old time photo. This time we were cow-girls. And then Janna and Mom convinced me to take one in the bathtub. It was so much fun! Janna got dressed as a sheriff. Mom and I even found a badge to tape on her jacket.

Afterwards we headed for dinner. Mom treated us to Landry's. The food was unbelievable. Then we walked around for a little bit and then headed back to the hotel. We were in by 8:45 pm. We got ready and hopped into bed. Mom fell asleep fast and Janna and I stayed up to watch Num3ers. Then we past out.

Saturday morning we got up around 6:30am showered, dressed and then headed for the convention center. We stopped at McDonald's for breakfast and then headed across he street to the convention center. We got there and of course in the lobby they had all kinds of stuff to buy. And we did. There were a lot of books and DVD's and music cd's. It was tough to not spend to much money. Mom went into the theater to save seats while Janna and I stood in line to purchase a few things. Then we headed in (cause it started) and we found Mom. She got good seats. The speakers were as follows:

Hilary Weeks - "Musical Performance"
Top-selling female LDS artist; multiple Pearl Award winner; previous albums include He Hears Me and Day of Praise

Jason Wright - "The Power of the Written Word"
Political and public policy consultant; founder of PoliticalDerby.com; OpEd writer; New York Times bestselling author, Christmas Jars and The Wednesday Letters

S. Michael Wilcox - "Accents of Wonder"
Ph.D, University of Colorado; institute instructor; recipient, Orton Literary Award; author, House of Glory and When Your Prayers Seem Unanswered

Chris Stewart - "Redefining Joy"
National best-selling author (including The Great and Terrible); world-record-setting pilot; President & CEO of The Shipley Group

Emily Watts - "Be Joyful...Even if it's All Your Fault"
Senior editor for Deseret Book Company; author, Being the Mom and Take Two Chocolates & Call Me in the Morning. Visit Emily at EmilyWatts.com

Carolyn Rasmus - "Living My Middle Name"
Former professor, Brigham Young University and visiting professor, North Texas State and South Dakota State Universities; member, board of directors for Deseret Book Company; author, Simplify

With each talk I was more and more edified spiritually. I thought each talk was just what I needed. Thank goodness for cameras. They video taped it. I am sure it won't be inexpensive. We broke for lunch at 11:45 am. We headed over to the Marriott Riverwalk Hotel for Tortilla Soup and Sandwiches. It was good soup! Then we stopped at Starbucks and got hot chocolate (the theater was cold!) and then headed back to our seats. You could definitely feel the spirit in the room.

After the conference we went back to the hotel and changed clothes for dinner. We headed back to the Riverwalk and had dinner and Rio Rio. We shared fajitas and then walked some more. I read somewhere that there was suppose to be a parade of coffins on the river and we wanted to find a good spot. We found a spot on a bridge. It was perfect! Then we headed back to the hotel. Again we are real party animals. We were back by 9:00 pm. Got ready for bed and then was all passed out early.

Sunday we got up got ready and then headed to the Alamo for pictures. I took piggy with me and got some pics of her in front of the Alamo. She is becoming quit the traveler. Then we headed to the hotel to check out. Once we drove away from the hotel Janna took us to the Spanish market. We stood at a bakery (for what seems like forever)for breakfast breads. YUM! It was sooo good! We walked around for a little bit and then headed for the car and started back. We were home by 2:00 pm. The whole weekend went by too fast. We got back to Mom and Dad's and then we went over to Jared and Vicky's house. I can't believe how big Piper (my niece) had grown! Plus I got to see my new Niece Campbell for the first time. She is soooo cute! We had dinner and then went back to Mom's. Got ready for bed. Night, night.

Monday morning I get up, shower take Mom to work and then meet Janna and Jaime. They picked me up and we headed to the mall. About 11:45am we headed to Mom's work and picked her up for lunch. We met my Dad and we headed to Kinkade's Burger Place. Then Mom and Dad took me to the Airport and dropped me off. Then I flew home and there we have it. My entire trip. It was definitely what I needed. What my Mom and Sister needed too. Only 13 days left till my last day of work. And that is a story for another time. I hope that I didn't bore anyone and if I did, I'm not sorry. :) The next trip in Tennessee for Thanksgiving. Until next time.

What color is your personality?

2008-10-22T18:34:00.001-07:00

What color is your personality?

Your personality is orange!

WOW! your an outgoing, and active individual. Sometimes your personality is confused with red, but your much more caring, and warm than red. You like animals, and can comfort almost anyone!

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Cinderella

2008-10-19T09:19:00.000-07:00

You Are Cinderella!

Dignified and hard working. With a gentle and soft-spoken manner you have something many people don't. Patience. Even through the moments of heartbreak you're still able to hold onto all of your hopes and dreams. Bide your time; your dream will come true.

Which Disney Princess Are You?

My Sister-In-Law Liz Gets Baptized

2008-10-14T21:58:00.000-07:00

Well I am sure that a lot know by now that my Sister-In-Law (more like just my Sister) Liz got baptized over this past weekend. Finally after 5 years she has decided to become a member of the Church.

What a weekend. Chad and I flew out Friday, 10/10 in the morning and flew into Jacksonville airport. Then rented a car and drove 2 hours! It was a long day. We got to their house in Rincon GA about 11 pm and then stayed up to listen to ringtones and play Scattagories. It was fun.

The next morning Mom, Liz and I went to Liz's Relief Society Super Saturday and canned receipts in a jar. (Mom you are going to bring mine next month when you come right?) Then we rushed home to have lunch, change clothes and then go back to the church for the baptism. It was so cute (I wished I got it on video), after Chad gave his talk (which He did an awesome job!) Justin (my brother) and Liz got in the font and he baptized her. Afterwards their son (Aidan) said "that was fun, do it again!" We all laughed. Then he wanted to get in. Grandma (my mom) said that he'll get to do it in a couple of years. What an amazing spirit we could feel in the room. I didn't take much pictures. My parents took a lot and and soon as I can get some from them I will post some.

We then all went back to the house, changed clothes and went out to dinner. Aidan was so cute. He kept putting grapes in his mouth like he was a squirrel saving up for the winter. I got some cute pics and a video with him saying his favorite phrase "Hello Gorgeous".

The waitress was so flattered when he said it to her. Then he wanted to go watch the football game at the bar. He said it to the bartender as well. Soon he was flirting with all the girls in the restaurant. Then we went back home and all crashed. I think we were still recuperating from the late night before. We got up the next morning and got ready for church. Aidan took Dad's (Justin) socks and put them on. He then modeled them for me. I still can't believe how big he is getting and what a character he is.

The confirmation was wonderful. Again you could definitely feel the spirit. I was so happy that Chad came with me and could stand in the circle to confirm her. Now we get to look forward till next year when they get sealed in the Temple. What a trip that will be!

Chad and I then rushed back to change clothes and book it to the airport. On the way back we stopped to take a quick picture in front of the Florida sign. We are trying to see how many states we can pictures in.

On the way we stopped just outside the airport to fill the rental car up with gas and as I pulled out of the gas station wouldn't you know, one of the tires blew out. We got right under the Return Rental Car sign when we couldn't go any further. We couldn't help but laugh (and I didn't take a picture, shame on me!). I got out and took a picture of the tire and then we called hertz.

They told us to leave the keys in the car with the windows rolled down. We got our luggage and had to make a run for it. Luckily the plane was late and they hadn't started boarding yet. We made it just in time to board with the "A's" (we like to fly Southwest). We flew from Jacksonville to Tampa and then had an hour till we flew Tampa to Phoenix. So we went and got something to eat. After we finished eating we headed back to the terminal and wouldn't you know that plane would be on time. We made the flight just in time to be the last two on the plane. We had to sit apart. That was tough and boring! We both had middle seats. I was ready to get off after 1 1/2. I watched "The Devil Wears Prada" (Merill Streap's character reminds me of my current boss) and read my book (I am re-reading the Twilight series and am currently on the second book). I slept on the car ride to Jacksonville, so I couldn't fall asleep. Plus the lady next to me was snoring. I can only stand Chad's snoring (sorry honey, the secret is out). Any who, we made it safely and without any additional hiccups.

Needless to say it was a quick trip! I can't wait till I fly to Texas on 10/23. I am going to Time Out For Women in San Antonio. Luckily its a shorter flight than going to Florida.

Grand Canyon Trip 9/13/08

2008-10-09T23:11:00.001-07:00

Diamondbacks Game 9/12/08

2008-09-14T21:03:00.000-07:00

Friday night we went to the Diamondbacks game. Its was so much fun. We had really great seats thanks to Flow Products. Of course its was Chad and me, then we broiught his brother Vernon and I brought my really good friend from work Jaya. It ws a blast. The D-Backs won 3-2. The first half was boring. No scoring. Then after the 7th inning it got good. Then afterwards there was a fireworks show and of course we stayed to watch them.

We can't wait to go to another game. Hopefully we can go again before the season is up.

Measure Of Your Creation

2008-09-10T21:19:00.000-07:00

Wow! What a night. Thank you Bishop Parry for inviting your Brother Shawn to share His talent and testimony with the youth. He taught us a little dance and then He shared his experience living in New York and what he has gone through to reach "The Measure of His Creation." What life living in New York and going on auditions for different Broadway Show. What an exciting life He has. What struggles Shawn went through and the quiet times He knew what the Lord wanted Him to do and go.

Doctrine & Covenants 88:25 "And again, verily I say unto you, the earth abideth in a law of a celestial kingdom, for it filleth the measure of its creation, and transgresseth not the law."

Knowing what our measure is can help us determine what kind of life we live. And in order to do that we must "by small and simple things are great things brought to pass; and small means in many instances doth confound the wise" (Alma 37:6).

One of the things that was mentioned was making your bed daily. It is a small and simple thing, but as you are hurrying to take a shower and start the day, turn and make your bed and as you are on your knees tucking your sheets it reminds you to take time to say your prayers. As you make it a habit to make your bed it develops a habit of saying your prayers.

Just as time was running out He shared his experience He had on September 11th and what He could do to help those that were in need. You could definitely feel the Spirit. What an amazing experience that had to of been. To see that no matter who you were they all banded together to help those that were hurt and to seek for those that were lost. What a great time for our country to show its true colors and to show how much we care about each other.

We must take time tomrrow to remember those that lost their lives and to remember what our country stands for and that we are truly "One Nation Under God".

What A Week!!

2008-09-07T00:25:00.000-07:00

What a week I had! It was one crazy week. To start things off a misunderstanding at my doctor's office to running around getting Chad's Birthday present and celebrating his birthday to having a house guest (that's right, Chad's Brother is back staying with us), to having my boss return from vacation. In case you missed it Vernon is back. Yup, he flew in Thursday night. We got 4 hours notice that he was flying in. So at 9pm (after we went and worked out) we headed off to the airport. I happy to see him and hope that this time he decides to stay and work his life out. I think he wants to start off a new life. He has had a ruff couple of years. Trying to get his life in order and find a job that he can actually enjoy. I feel bad for him. He came out in January and only stayed a week. He said he should never have left. But that's OK. He came back and I just pray everything works out. We will try and help him out as best as we can. Hopefully he will be able to get on his feet again.

Did I also mention that my boss is back from Greece. It has been a tough two weeks. Do many fires I had to out out. It seemed like all her clients wanted to change dates, cancel or just as stupid questions that just couldn't wait for her. I didn't get to do anything I wanted to do (or work to catch up on) while she was out. UGH!! I just have to last a few more months and then I hope to say goodbye.

Also these stupid hot flashes! I don't think I can take much more of them. Like tonight we went to the Olive Garden (thanks Eric, Janelle and Jackson for the gift card) for dinner. As soon as I was done eating my salad I had a hot flash. Right in the middle of dinner I had to get a piece of paper out to fan myself. I can't wait to be done with this medicine!!! I just hope everything goes as plan.

Now to wrap this up and get to bed since its 1:05 am and I have to get up for church. My sister-in-law is getting baptised in October. And to top it all off Justin (my brother) is going to baptize her! I have been waiting for this moment for a long time. I am so glad that Justin came back to the church. I am so glad that they moved to Georgia. I know it funny to say that, but its because of the people in their ward and the fellowshipping that they did that has brought my sister in to the gospel. Its funny this past week I had a dream and Justin and Liz were getting sealed in the Temple and I was with Aidan in the waiting area. Then today I find out that she is getting baptized!! What an amazing day it will be! Now we just have to by our plane tickets and plan on taking Friday the 10th off to go. October is going to be a very busy month. I just hope that I am ready for it. I know I am ready for my girls only trip with my mom and sister. I am looking forward to seeing them.

Well I am off to bed and off to having sweet dreams! Until we meet again I say good night and sweet dreams.

38 Years Old!

2008-09-03T14:51:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday My Love! Today is Chad's Birthday. He is 38 years old! This morning he woke up to a present in the shower.

Yup that is where I hid his present, a watch. Thank goodness I left the shower door open! Hate to of had him turn on the shower and get it all wet. I got up at Midnight just to hide it. I wasn't sure how or when I wanted to give it to Him. I knew that I wanted Chad to have it before he went to work, so since I was wide awake and needed a drink that is what hit me at 12:00 am. He really loved it. I figured this way he has no excuse of being late anymore since he didn't have a watch.

So that is what I got him. I also had it inscribed on the back. It reads LYAGBYT then a heart and Jlynn. Some of you may have seen it on Chad's license plate on his truck and have wondered what it means. Well it mean Love You A lot, God Bless You Today. We started saying that to each other when we were dating and it has stuck with us. Every time we give a card or just in passing will say, LYAGBYT.

I hope you have a wonderful Birthday and I look forward to celebrating many more with you!! I love you more than the day we got married and I hope to love you more as time goes by. I am the luckiest women to be blessed with you in my life. Look forward to spending time together laughing, having fun and making a life together.

I love you now and forever!!!

New Blog Addition

2008-08-30T19:22:00.001-07:00

So I have decided to start taking as many pictures during the YW activities as I can. I decided to start an Alma 11th Ward YW Activities Blog to show off our wonderful YW in our ward. I have added the link to my blog as well as to this message. I know we have a great group of girls and wanted to do something to show them off. I have also moved all the pictures (and left copies that had messages attached to my blog so I didn't lose the messages) to the new YW blog. So don't worry they are still available to look at. Here is the website and hope you enjoy!
www.alma11thwardyw.blogspot.com

Twilight Movie Update

2008-08-20T22:02:00.000-07:00

So I just learned (and I am probably the last to find out) that the Twilight Movie has been moved up to guess what, my birthday, November 21st. Happy Birthday to me!!! Thank you Harry Potter for moving the premier date for that movie.

So who is going to go to the midnight showing with me? Any takers??

Mia Maid Volleyball Activity

2008-08-20T21:47:00.000-07:00

3rd Set of Pages for Page Swap Group

2008-08-14T19:00:00.000-07:00

I actually finished the next set of pages for my page swap group early. It was a tough road. When I started out to do these I wanted to do something with pink and brown polka dots. And as you can see in the picture there are no polka dots. When Chad and I went to Hobby Lobby (huge sale on paper), I had an idea. But when I looked at the paper (there was not enough pink and brown polka dots). Then Chad found some paper in big pink polka dots. I figured by the time you add anything to the paper you will loose the pink. Then I found pink, black,white and gray striped paper. So guess what? Yup, your right, that is what I went with.

As soon as I saw the paper I knew exactly what I was going to do. So I got the paper then I wanted embellishments. So I turned to ribbon. Even that was half off. So I got ribbon in each of the colors. When I got home I started figuring out the size of the pictures and how to put my idea onto the paper.

As I was sitting (10:00 pm at night), the idea of alternating the colored paper with the ribbon came to life. Then I thought about adding individual charms to the ribbon. So of course I looked and looked at every store possible on what I could use. I finally (after a week) gave up and went to Scrapbooks Etc. in north Mesa. i was glad that I already had my pages designed and was only looking for the charms. Well I can't say that to lightly. After being in the store for 2 hours (and I am not kidding), I checked out with the perfect charms.

I have totally amazed myself on these pages. I can't believe that I actually came up with this idea. I normally get help (thanks Connie, you are a life saver!). Although mine are still simple (I think that is the way my personality is, the simple the better). I hope that the others in the group will like it.

The only trouble that I had with it is the title. I couldn't think of what to call it. Chad wanted me to call it cotton candy or bubblegum ice cream (thanks honey, you sure are creative!). I wanted to call it Simple Love. His suggestion was why not call it Simply Love. And as soon as he said that I new I had to go with that. I couldn't believe on how the title came to Chad. I think I will start being nicer to you so you can continue to help me when I need it.

So as you can see above, this is the final product. Again I am so proud of myself. I think a little bit of creativity is rubbing off on me thanks to Connie and Susie.

I guess I will see what the next inspiration will bring.

Breaking Dawn

2008-08-05T21:56:00.000-07:00

So everyone who knows me knows that I am obsessed with the Twilight series. Even my Aunt is a closet reader. Well they released Breaking Dawn Saturday, and I am sad to say that I have finished the book. I couldn't put the book down. I tried pacing myself, but couldn't. I started reading it at 7:30 am on Saturday and by that evening I was half way done. I wanted to finish it on Sunday but a family gathering (Ashley Bentley's blessing) prevented (should I use that word?) me from getting a lot of time in to read it. I did get two hours after we got home to read.

Now I have to find another series to read. I am sad that the series has concluded. I hope that in the near future she adds another book and lets us know how the Cullens are doing (listen to me talk like they are a real family, they are in my head!). I couldn't help but compare some of the thoughts and actions and situations that Bella went through to my own life. I am dying to talk to someone about the book with someone who has or is reading it. I don't want to ruin anything for anyone who has not read it yet.

My poor mom, I unloaded on her on the phone (she isn't reading and will probably not read the series). She told me that she needed to call me back and didn't (I probably wouldn't have called me back either). I talked her ear off!

What I can't wait for is the movie in December! I want to re-read the first book so I don't miss anything that the movie does/doesn't portray. Its become an obsession and I am sorry to family and friends in advance when I talk about it and the passion that comes from me.

Does anyone have a suggestion on a good book?

Tubing On The Salt River

2008-07-15T18:18:00.000-07:00

Saturday 7/12 we went tubing down the salt river. It was sooooo much fun! I am so glad that Chad suggested going. We had a blast. We definitly will do this again.

We got there at 12:00 pm and there were so many people already on the river. But we got in line and got our tubes and headed out for the river. I couldn't believe how cold the river was. BRRRR! But that's ok. It was very refreshing. On a hot day it was perfect.

There were a few rapids that we took on, but all in all we made it the whole 3 hours. Then we came home, showered and then crashed till 8:00pm. Then made a quick Wal-Mart trip. But all in all, it was a good Saturday. I think we are going to try and do more things on Saturday so that we don't just sit at home all weekend.

Oh we also got really sunburned. We just didn't think to reapply the sunscreen every hour. But that's ok. It was still worth the trip.

4th Of July Trip Pics

2008-07-13T00:33:00.001-07:00

4th Of July Trip

2008-07-12T22:21:00.000-07:00

Well I finally got some pictures uploaded to share of your 4th of July Trip To California. Our trip got off rocky, meaning I didn't leave work until almost 4pm. I was suppose to leave at 3pm (office closed early). Well I was the only one there past 3pm, even mu boss left and I was still working on her stuff, but I need to let it go. Plus Chad was going to leave when I left, so he got home late which means we got on the road late. We had a few things still to pack. But it got done and we packed the rental car (Chevy Malibu) and set out on our trip. the good news is that the rental car company (Hertz) threw in NeverLost for free. So we typed in the address of the first hotel and off we went. We spent one night in San Diego (getting in Thursday Night at Midnight) at the Courtyard in downtown San Diego. What a hotel. When the building was first built it was a bank. Beautiful ceilings and carpet and everything. Amazing hotel. I would definitely stay there every time we go (if we go again). Cheap rate doesn't hurt either. We got up had breakfast, checked out and headed out to see what we could find. We were going to go to Seaworld, but Chad wanted to see if there was an aircraft carrier in port to tour. So we headed off to the port to see what we could find. We ended up touring the USS Midway that they have in port. It was so much fun! It had been de-commissioned 4 yrs ago I believe and was brought to San Diego and turned into a walking museum. I think we toured it for like 3 hours. We couldn't believe how big it was. It is like a floating city. From 3 different dinning areas to post office to a movie place, the men and women who served on that aircraft carrier truly called it home. We couldn't believe some of the sleeping areas. Plus there was a sick bay, operating room, pharmacy, x-ray machine and also large washing machines and press machines for the perfect crease on they pants and shirts (need one of those). Then we got to tour the bridge area where the captain sits and we got to sit in the captain's chair. Then on deck they has some helicopters and planes. Don't ask me what kind, cause I don't know. My dad and brother Jared would know. Then we got lunch and set out on the road.

We programed in the next address and headed north toward Thousand Oaks (where I use to live). But we made a few stops on the way. I figured since we were driving anyways, we could stop at a few Temples on the way. So we programed each address into NeverLost (I wanted to call it Sally since it had a women's voice) and headed to each temple on our list.

The first Temple was San Diego. I went through the open house when I was a kid. It sure still looks big and beautiful. Like a castle. We couldn't go past the gates. It was closed. So we got a few pictures through the gate. The second was the Newport Beach Temple. Again, gates closed and locked. It had its own kind of beauty. So more pictures through the gates. Third, was of course the LA Temple. We made it right at sunset and it made it even more beautiful. I love the one of us sitting on the lawn in front of the Temple. Everyone who stopped at the light in front of the Temple got a side show I guess. The visitors center is under construction so we couldn't go in. The interesting thing is that they have miniature statues of the women's garden statues that where at the Navoo Temple visitors center. Plus they had poems at each statue that they taped someone speaking it. That was amazing.

Then we typed in the address of the next hotel (TownPlace Suite Marriott) and off we went. The cool thing was that it was Friday, July 4th. As we got into Thousand Oaks we saw fireworks. It was cool. We check into the hotel and settled in for the night. I watched the Boston Pops fireworks showe on TV and Chad fell asleep.

Saturday we got up and headed out for breakfast. Then we set off to find my old elementary school. Its still in the middle of the strawberry fields. I remember when there would be fog still lingering in the morning when we would got to school. Plus I remember the school being a lot bigger. Maybe because I was a lot smaller. So I took so pics and off we went to Pt. Mugu Navel base. As we were rounding the corner I started getting flash backs of driving on that road. A lot of emotions came flooding in. We stopped and took pics and then headed to Malibu. We could get on base so I couldn't show the house that I lived in. But that's ok. We drove by the playground that I once ran away to and Mom finally found me. Those were the good old days.

Then we headed to Malibu. We stopped on the way to take pics. Then found a place to park and headed out to the beach. There were so many people there. But we found a spot and hunkered down. We finally got in the water (and boy was it cold). The first wave toppled me over and I just about drowned, but Chad rescued me. The water was cold (considering the high was 75 degrees). I think we spent 1 1/2 -2 hours at the beach and then decided to head back to the hotel, clean up and go out for a nice dinner. We ended up at Chilis. It was right in front of the hotel and after being in the sun we were both tired. Then we headed back to the beach for sunset pics. We made it just in time before the sun was completely gone.

Sunday morning we got up ate breakfast, packed up and head home. We had one more Temple to hit before home. We programed the address into Sally (NeverLost) and away we went. As we were driving on the freeway we saw a sign for the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library. So we took a detore and away we went. The tour was awesome. They had Nancy Reagan's fancy gowns that she wore on display. Also they had on display things from Ronald's childhood all the way through His presidency. It was amazing. They also had His Air Force One Jet and the Helicopter. Even a replica of the oval office with the desk that he really used. Truly amazing.

Then headed for the last Temple on our trip. The Redlands Temple. The Stake Center was right next door so we parked there (as others were in church), got out a took pics. Then got back in the car and found a place to have lunch. I opted for the Stake Center parking lot, but Chad reminded me that it was fast Sunday and eating the parking lot was ironic. So we pulled off into the Church of Christ parking lot and ate. Then headed home. We were only 4 hours away. we finally got in around 9pm. Unloaded the car and got into bed.

The whole trip was what we both needed. It was a fantastic trip and we look forward to going on another one. It was exactly what we needed. Some R&R and fun. After over 800 pics and lots of gas, I think we grew a lot closer. It was the best trip we have been on. So what the future holds for us, who knows. Only that we are together and that we truly are in love!

So now that I have rambled on for over an hour writing this, I am going to bed. I hope you enjoy the pics (sorry there are so many good ones that I wanted to show) and hope that your trips are always fun and bring lots of good memories. Until the next great adventure.

Mesa Temple Visitor's Center

2008-06-28T23:09:00.000-07:00

So we took the YW in our ward to the Mesa Temple Visitors Center for our Wed. night activity to see the photo exhibit called "Reflections of Christ". The photographer is a local artist who took the actors that were in the Easter Pageant and take their pictures. Let me tell you WOW!!! It is so moving how he captured the Savior's life and ministry. It was so moving that I surprised Chad on Friday and took him to see it. It was still great. I still cried even though I had seen it two days earlier. It definitely set the tone for the evening. Afterwards we walked the Temple grounds. I figured since we weren't going to make it to ward temple night that at least walking the grounds would be a great substitute. I only hope that the photographer will do reproductions cause I sure would buy a couple. The photographer's name is Mark Mabry and he is fantastic. He did a photo of the man playing Christ and He is all in White with his back to the camera and the light is in front of him illuminating him and you can see his right hand and the mark on his palm. Its like he was there and Christ Himself posed for the picture. Its hard to describe. You have to see it for yourself to get the full affect. I am going to keep my eye out for if and when he does reproductions and get one. Before we left the center I had one of the sister missionaries take or picture in front of the giant Christ statue. Enjoy!

Girls Camp

2008-06-21T12:56:00.000-07:00

Well another year and another Girls Camp gone by. And I survived. Even going with the 4th years. I had so much fun camping, canoeing, being thrown in an ice cold lake and star gazing. This year was so much more fun than last year! We were in Orchard Camp and it seems like we had to hike to and from our addie to the eating area. I think I actually lost some weight. YEA!!!

This year the theme was Be Loyal To The Royal That Is In You. How did the Stake Camp Director know just what I needed at this point in my life. So much has been happening that I needed to be reminded who I am and what was in store for me. It seemed like all the devotionals and the "Commitment Hike" is what I needed. I figured out so much and came back more confident then when I left. I was faced with hard times (hiking 3.5 with full gear and then hiking another 5 miles at camp) all to put into perspective on what I wanted for my life.

But enough dwelling it was so much fun hanging out with the young women and also the other leaders. I think i can safely say that we have all become close friends (at least that is what I feel). All of us leaders love the girls (how can we not, we have the best young women in the whole world!!). We also had so much fun together as leaders and have made some great memories (including pictures that can't be shown). And speaking of pictures, there will be pictures to follow. So that is all for now.

Pics of old & new apartment

2008-06-16T20:44:00.001-07:00

Finished Moving

2008-06-16T20:25:00.000-07:00

I guess I should update our blogg to say that we did move. We did it in two days and it was tough. I guess I can't complain since we literally moved next door. We moved over Memorial weekend. I haven't been able to get online in three weeks to add pictures and to tell everyone that we did finish moving. But I do have to say its been nice having the second bedroom as storage (and Chad gets his own bathroom!). We both love having the extra space and are now hunting for a dinning table. I also went to girls camp. But that will come in another blogg. Pictures of our new place are coming. Right now we are getting ready to go for a swim. So I will blogg all about girls camp when we get back because it was so awesome! Pictures are coming of that adventure too.

Peace, love and happiness to all!!

She's Here: Campbell Rose Bernard

2008-05-28T18:35:00.000-07:00

My brother's wife Vicky had their baby today at around 7:00 pm. I am so excited!!! I am an Aunt again! Here is a picture of the new bundle of joy. It number two for them and 2nd girl.

2nd Scrapebook Pages "All Things Bright And Beautiful"

2008-05-25T22:24:00.000-07:00

So I am in this scrapbook page swap group and our pages were due last week. So when I started thinking about my pages, I came up with the title "You Are My Sunshine". But when I walked into a scrapbook store in north Mesa, the idea went right out the window. I have never in my life seen so much stuff in one place. Rows of paper, embellishments, stickers, stamps, oh my! I got so many ideas. So I went through the paper and my idea started to morph. I found paper, embellishments, ribbon. Once I got all that I needed to come up with a layout. I couldn't believe how easy it all came together. I am so proud of myself. Then the last thing I needed was a title. So I thought and thought and asked my cousin and scrapbook genius and her (Connie)thought was to look over the songs from the primary. I can't believe that idea worked. I picked "All Things Bright And Beautiful." I tell you what anytime I am stuck I am going to turn to the Primary songs and maybe even a Hymn. I just want to say thank you and also how lucky I am to have such a wonderful cousin who always allows me to come and use her stuff and to help get ideas from. I am learning so much from you! Thank you Connie! You are the best.

Well here is what my page turned out. I am very proud of them and I feel like I am catching up to my very experienced cousins. I hope I can do half as good as they. Enjoy!

Moving Day

2008-05-25T09:02:00.000-07:00

Whoever said moving was easy is so wrong!!! We have started moving to our new apartment and have almost finished. All we have left is the Kitchen and then clean. Hopefully we can finish tomorrow and then I can clean the rest of the week.

It was a very long day yesterday. But I think that is what motivated us to get as much done as we did. Both our feet hurt and I haven't slept so good in a long time because I was so tired. But we finally got into a two bedroom apartment and the good thing is that its right next door to our old apartment. So we really didn't have to go that far. But I think that is what prevented us to getting it all done. We didn't pack as much and that hindered us from finishing. But that's ok. The owner was nice enough to not pro rate the rent a week so now we just have to notify everyone our new address. More work for me, but that's ok. We have a storage room and more room all around. Finally no more tripping over things and seeing the clutter!

Over the next year we hope to go through and get rid of stuff that we no longer need or want. So with this almost behind us, the next thing to concentrate on is Girls camp. I can't believe its almost here. But that's another blog.

Pitures to come.

6 Wonderful Years Together

2008-05-18T20:33:00.000-07:00

I can't believe today is Chad and I's 6th Wedding Anniversary. Time sure has gone fast. It seems just yesterday that we were making plans, getting engaged and then getting married. The past six years we have had so many wonderful moments and have been so blessed.

I am so lucky to have such an awesome guy in my life. To have a caring, loving, fun, all around great person in my life, I can't ask for anyone else. I am so lucky!!

I hope that we can have many more great times and lots more great memories. I am thankful everyday and will be for the rest of my life.

Chad's Friend's Graduation From ASU MBA Program

2008-05-18T20:32:00.001-07:00

Canoe Day

2008-05-18T19:55:00.001-07:00

Father/Daughter Overnighter

2008-04-26T22:04:00.001-07:00

Father/Daughter Overnighter

2008-04-26T20:17:00.000-07:00

We took the YW in our ward on a Father/Daughter Overnighter. I would call it a campout but we were in a cabin. So I am call it an overnighter. The cabin in just north of Payson, about 2 hours North East of Phx. It was so much fun. We played games and talked and then had a devotional by a fire while roasting marshmellows. Then we got up on Saturday, changed a tire, conoed and had a picnic at Willow Springs Lake. That was awsome! I am so glad that I was able to go and that we had a great turnout of girls and priesthood holders. I hope this becomes a tradition that is done every year. I think bonding with their dad's is important. I remember the times that I had with my Dad and am grateful for those times. I hope that you enjoy the pictures.

Time Out For Women

2008-04-05T13:25:00.000-07:00

Time Out for WomenSan Antonio, TX

Friday, October 24, 20086:30-9:30 PM
Saturday, October 25, 20088:45 AM-3:45 PM
Henry B. Gonzales Convention CenterBallroom A200 East Market Street

I am excited to announce that Time Out for Women is coming back to San Antonio. Ladies (Robyn & Jamie), remember what fun we had? My mom and sister and I will be going back and staying in the same hotel as last time (wyndham St. Anthony). I will fly into San Antonio for the weekend. What fun it would be if we all got back together for that weekend. I have not got my plane ticket yet, hope to have it soon. Let me know if you are up to going. The schedule is not yet posted for it so I am not sure on the cost or who will be speaking. What a perfect time for a reunion!

Lots of love!

Life's Little Moments

2008-03-31T21:58:00.000-07:00

Its interesting how life takes it turns and knocks your focus out of whack. One minute you are focused on one thing only to be bumped and your focus shifts.

We have been putting the adoption on the back burner. We were looking for a house and we found one that was beautiful and the price was awesome. Poor Jason our friend and realtor. We ran him ragged. We had two houses taken out from under us. Perfect location and everything. Then we moved out a little. We found another house that was a little further from work. I figured if we go that far out why not get a new one. So we spent all day this past Saturday looking at homes. I fell in love with so many houses it was hard to choose from. Until we finally agreed on one and then started the paperwork.

All the way back to the apartment we talked about it. Then when we got up Sunday morning we talked again. Even listing out our pros and cons. This has been one of the hardest decisions we have had to make.

Usually when we have to make a huge decision everything falls into place and we both know that its the right decision. Both we both did not feel good about it. We just didn't have that confirmation that this is what we were suppose to do at this time.

So we did not buy a house. Instead we both feel that its time to get back on track and get the adoption stuff done. That is what we are suppose to focus on.

Its interesting when you stop focusing so much on something on how easy other things are put into importance. Does that even make sense? Oh well.

Well I can get off my soap box now. I have some ready to do. That is a whole other blog. I started the last book in a series. I have never gotten so involved in a book before. But this is a perfect blend of romance, danger, mystery and humor. When I finish my book I will write about it. I can't wait till the 4th comes out and the movie . But that's another night.

Will write again!